he left me for her but came back begging for my forgiveness i didn't let him in that easy i was even in other realtionships but he was always there saying that he would wait no matter what...i tried to move on and barely thought about him i even thought i loved this other guy i was dating....but we broke up and my ex isstill here trying to get me back now i think that maybe even though he cheated & decieved me we might just be meant to be.....what do u think???
2006-08-23 09:17:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU ARE NEVER MEANT TO BE WITH A PERSON THAT HURTS YOU .THE SAME WAY YOU LEFT THE GIRL ALONE THAT WAS YOUR FRIEND LEAVE THE PAST IN THE PAST.HE IS TRYING HARD TO GET YOU BACK BECAUSE YOU ARE A GOOD CATCH .YOU DESERVE BETTER,HE HAS ONLY SEEMED TO CHANGE .
2006-08-23 09:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by gemini78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually should decide whether if you should accept him again. But from your question, I believe you have some reservation on the relationship with him again. But ask yourself :" Will you trust him again". Basically if a couples don't have trust in each other, it is a matter of time that they will breakup. So I believe you need sometime t cool down and think carefully before you made the decision.
2006-08-23 13:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a creep. If he was able to move on w/ the girl he cheated with, then he obviously didn't want to be w/ you...until that didn't work out. Now I think it's just easier for him to wait on you than start out/ work on a new relationship. Oh yeah, the B*TCH was never ur friend to begin with so u shouldn't refer to her as such.
2006-08-23 09:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk ... selfish ... and uncaring ... so what he is sweating you to have you back .... how can you even consider the jerk after what he did .... do you think he could ever truly be respectful of you in the future? .... if he could cheat with your friend ... he will do it with anybody ... and probably has .... find someone with integrity ... and if you think you are meant to be with somone that is unfaithful in the worst way ... has no self-control ... abusive ... non loving .... unkind etc. i could go on and on .... then yes maybe you were meant to be together
2006-08-23 09:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by jus j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur boyfriend og 2 years cheated on u more than once i would not give him a chance
but if it was his first time cheating sometimes people make lousy choices in life even mistakes that they regret
i would give him a chance to make it up to u if he does it again than leave for good
2006-08-23 09:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any one who would cheat on you does not care about you. The ho he f-ed probably threw him out. You're not meant to be, move on and tell him to leave you alone.
2006-08-23 09:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always tell people, hurt by love can be forgive, but is unforgetable. So, you have to ask your heart, can you continues with him even that you will never forget how he hurt you?
2006-08-23 14:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're a moron. Seriously. If you believe this non-sense, then don't come b.itching about how you were so stupid to believe him when he cheats on you again. Remember, the first time... his mistake... THE SECOND TIME will be YOUR MISTAKE. So, don't regret it.
2006-08-23 09:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you.......do you forgive him ? if you can honestly say you have gotten past it, then you two can work things out. If you are always gonna remind him of his mistake dont waste your time or his.
2006-08-23 09:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was never your friend and he showed you his character, if you choose to ignore that its your own fault. You know whats up with him, so if you go back to him then you deserve what you get.
2006-08-23 09:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋