but.you guys cant u get it whats iam going through it hearts so bad i cry a lot it rellly hard iam serious i really need help and iam so confused i love this man with all my life and i can see it in his eyes that he loves me too but why cant he just let me stay with him.............ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
2006-08-23 09:13:49 · 8 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i turned 20 ....................................................
2006-08-23 09:30:38 · update #1
I'm sorry sweetie. I know that this hurts. You love your man but he has abandon you honey. You have to accept the facts and come to terms that even though you love him, he doesn;t want to be in a relatonship with you anymore.
It's going to hurt a lot and for a long time. But you will get over this, Yes, you can. Find comfort in God, talk to a trusted friend or a relative that can advise you. If you have access to counselling, please do.
Cry it out, you have to let this go and go through the normal process of grieving. But you have to face the facts and stop the denial. If you keep on holding on to nothing and clinging to false self-produced hope is going to hurt even more.
Wake up and see reality for what it is. You have to gather some dignity and stop begging.
I'm so sorry for what is happening to you, I hope that this helps.
PS/ Don't listen to peopel that are insensitive. Who cares about f**king spelling when your husband has abandon you,
People, more consideration please.
Good luck
2006-08-23 09:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here, would you like some cheese and crackers to go with that whine?
Grow up...what are you 12?
Thanks for the 2 points.
From the Great and Powerful Poppet
2006-08-23 16:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of how old are you and sometimes it scares men silly to know that they love you but they need time to sort things out too. You might need to sit down and talk to him and find out what is going on .
2006-08-23 16:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by chuck c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt and hurt a lot but it does get easier......cry......and cry and then cry some more......but you cannot change things if they are not meant to be. Sometimes the pride bit....that hurts too....
2006-08-23 18:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL U NEED 2 LEARN HOW TO SPELL.. .. USE THE CHECK SPELLING, (HELLO) MAYBE HE DO NOT BELIEVE IN THAT... GIVE HIM TIME IF HE REALLY LOVE U HE WILL MARRY U AND LET U MOVE IN
2006-08-23 16:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by TANNER GIRL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a shower,then lick ur elbow, that should help him realize what a 'SPECIAL' and i mean SPECIAL , person u are,
2006-08-23 16:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by hunglow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pathetic
2006-08-23 16:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!
2006-08-23 16:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋