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I have beeen living in Uk nearly 2 years now and i have been in school i just found few black freinds becouse i am also black.
So the friends i had in school they all moved to other country so now i am here without freinds when i whent to college i couldt find any freinds no one want to talk to me i dont know why and the freinds i had in school who move to other country they havend send me letter or something i havend hear from them for ages i also dont have they're address nothing i dont know what to do. I am sorry about my english i hope you can read it I am from Germany and just been living here in uk for 2 years now

2006-08-23 09:06:48 · 36 answers · asked by Ram1989 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

36 answers

give it time. open yourself up gradually to a few people that you like. good luck

2006-08-23 09:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think like someone has already said that joining a club, or getting involved with something will inevitibly lead to new contacts........I myself do not have any really close friends at the moment because I've left school and so it is hard sustain conctacts. Do you have a job? If you don't, maybe just get a part-time job doing something you are interested in and you will hopefully meet similar kinds of people to yourself. Even going to an evening class once a week you will meet people and even if they not best friends you could least do things together that you share an interest in........If you have a favourite sport then find out where you can play it. I think you just have to get involved with some new things........write a list of your interests and perhaps think of ways of doing the things you like. Try not to think too much about making friends but think of ways of just meeting people. You said you were from Germany so maybe see if you can help someone with there german and they with your english......give it a go! I've studied some German myself so you have me as a start to help me with german!
Viel Glück!!
Melissa

2006-08-23 09:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by Seriously Though 4 · 0 0

I don't see why you can't make friends in the UK. They are better with the race thing over there than her in the US. Maybe you are not opening yourself up to friends from other races. You said that all your friends were black, but you should have friends in all colors if you want to have any at all. Friends come in different shades, you are limiting yourself from friends because maybe you just want black friends. There are plenty of black people that are from the UK. You shouldn't have a problem in that area. Why don't you find some hang out spots where there are people your age and your color if that is what you prefer to be around.

2006-08-23 09:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Look for places and/or groups to join that is of a particular interest to you. That way you will meet people who have a common interest and have a foundation to start to begin a friendship. Such as a readers / discussion group if you like to read or a poetry cafe if you like poetry - check at the libraries to see if they have special interest groups..these are just examples since I don't know what your own may be. But that is my best suggestion. Once you meet new people, plan a small dinner party or get together with them soon to become even more acquainted. Good luck to you! : -)

2006-08-23 09:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0 0

Go out chat to people join a church a gym a dance class don't limit yourself by colour. You will learn so much from people of all races. If you live in London check out two Brewers on Wednesday's the DJ is German Black and very handsome plus they play salsa all night.

2006-08-23 09:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by Sky 2 · 0 0

Having friends is both good and bad. I dont have any friends but then again my husband is also my best friend. Maybe just get into some out of school activities and meet new people. Or maybe even some in-school activities. I probably didnt help much but good luck!

2006-08-23 09:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

haha honestly making friends is harder than it looks, if you find anyone staring at you or making eye contact with you, smile and take that in consideration. Or find out some of the hang out spots and see if you can make anyfriends there. and your friends dont have to be friends that go to your school or that are the same age as you, you can meet people anywhere just keep your options open and be open towards others :)

2006-08-23 09:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

You may try getting on a bowling league, joining some type of sport activity, or club. If your friends have not written to you, then they wern't really good friends at all. Don't worry about them.
Try talking to your class counseler at school, maybe they know some groups to get into. lots of love.

2006-08-23 09:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by GERRI B 3 · 0 0

I think it is probably because you are desperate and people can see that. Just be yourself and talk to people instead of waiting for them to come to you. Maybe join a group or something so that you can meet people with similar interests.

Don't see why all your friends have to black though just because you are.

2006-08-23 09:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 0 0

Same story here, I just make & meet friend & they just disappear without a goodbye, they all don't send me mails, they don't fone me, sometimes I think I'm boring. By the way I'm in South Africa.

2006-08-23 09:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by nontoh 1 · 0 0

why do your friends have to be black? I appreciate that its nice to have friends of a similar background, but few people choose friends based solely on the colour of their skin. Maybe you just need to look more widely?

2006-08-23 09:09:25 · answer #11 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 0 0

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