my boyfriend and i have been having sex a lot lately, and usually we start with no condom, but later about a minute or so, he gets the condom. he said that he doesnt precum and his ex girlfriend and him would always have unprotected sex and nothing happened...in a way i trust him when he says he doesnt precum, but i just want to be sure that i wont end up pregnant. and he doesnt *** until a long time during sex, so having sex for about 2 minutes unprotected wouldnt hurt right? what should i do to prevent getting pregnant? i would take the morning after pill but isnt it a little to late? we've been having sex for about 5 days now.
2006-08-23 09:01:25 · 32 answers · asked by jeanette 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
what should i do now to avoid being pregnant? would birth control pills help if i start using them asap?
2006-08-23 09:12:03 · update #1
If you trust him then you are a fool. Read up on how long sperm can survive, not to mention do a little research on human health and information on how the body functions. You are kidding yourself if you think that what you are doing is considered unprotected sex. Good luck with the baby when it inevitably comes.
2006-08-23 09:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like the majorities right on this one. First, he may not be aware of it himself, but he likely does have precum. Second, I recommend a condom for protection from STDs. If you are really worried about avoiding pregnancy I recommend a double method. That is what I use (condoms and the pill). However, you can use what is best for you: condoms, pills, diaphragm, IUD, etc. I would never rely on a single method of birth control. I would also never have sex with a guy who is not willing to use a condom period. I have had guy try to pull that on me. The other thing is that a guy can preejaculate or *** too early (even after only a few seconds). Don't take the chance. Why would you lower yourself to hook up with someone who would run such a lame game on you anyway?
2006-08-24 20:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anna M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never trust a man that says he knows he doesn't "precum". Everyman has a little leak of seamen that comes out before he actually ejactulates. And your man is no magician. To not get pregenant, how about you make him put on the condom before you actually engage in intercourse. Or if you two aren't responsible enough for that, avoid having sex at all. I know that isn't likely, so go to the dr. or planned parenthood and get some on some method of birth control. Just because his ex-girlfriend didn't get pregnant is a stupid reason to think you won't. Make him put on the condom, plain and simple, or don't put out.
2006-08-23 09:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to have sex, you should either get super duper full proof protection or stop having it (yeah right i know), but seriously you are playing a dangerous game that could i am sorry to stay RUIN your life, you only have one life live it well-if you have a child too early the rest of your life is going to suffer-i am speaking from experience i was 18 when i had my first-dont get me wrong i love my children (yes i had more) with all my heart and i dont regret them-but if i could have waited until i was at least done with college i could be spending more time with them and they could be living a better life, I wish i had more money and time to take them places but it is hard-i am now 30 yrs old and finally finishing a BS and soon i will apply to get my masters-its been a long, long difficult road finishing my degree-not an online degree either-anyway just trust me that you really need to be careful and do things the safe way-there are so many products you can get-invest in some expensive condoms-people have said that they couldnt even tell they were on
2006-08-23 09:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Joey W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about becoming pregnant as much as being concerned of STD's. You stated above he had unprotected sex with his ex. You may trust him and sorry to disappoint you but, do you 100% completely believe he'll be faithful to you?
If you're so worried about becoming pregnant just tell him to put the condom on before starting anything, It's as simple as that.
To avoid becoming pregnant now-use protection.
Birth control is now too late to use, you would have had to start for a month before to get your body regulated.
2006-08-23 09:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Prissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wont take the precaution then U need to take care of yourself becos if U get pregnant he is gonna blame U as if U made yourself pregnant. There are many options- pills, female condom, diaphragm, sprays, its a bunch of stuff U could use. Ask a gynecologist or anyone u know that is a nurse.
2006-08-23 09:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by beezebee25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very silly!! Either he should wear a condom from the start or you should go on the pill. The morning after pill means just that, you take it the morning after maximum of up to 3 days after sex, otherwise it's no good.
2006-08-23 09:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUM IDEA...
Fact: All men precum
Fact: Just cause she didn't get pregnant doesn't mean that you wont.
Fact: You don't just have to worry about pregnancy...WHAT ABOUT DISEASES? Trust no man with your body!!!
Fact: The morning after pill only works if you are not pregnant already! Use a condom in conjunction with birth control if you are gonna have sex.
2006-08-23 09:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by outspoken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS use birth control. In your case, he ALWAYS has a condom on if he's going in you. That, or don't have sex at all. Which, is the best way to not get pregnant as condoms are only 97% effective.
2006-08-23 09:03:53 · answer #9 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do it unprotected at all. You should put the condom on before things start to get too hot and heavy. Mistakes happen and unprotected sex is always wrong. It is too late now. Be safe and good luck.
2006-08-23 09:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋