but he said he dosent want to be with me right now cuz he cant supprot himself that well so how will he support me?
2006-08-23 08:53:23 · 11 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yup
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2006-08-23 08:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk is cheap. You are being naive believing all of this fussy talk. Face the facts: he is away and he says that he wants out... what is that you don't understand? "I don't want to be with you" is a clear and direct statement.....
If he really loved you he would find a way to have you there with him. Most loving couples do, and most couples start with very little and with a lot of sacrifice. If you are not there with him is because he doesn't want you there.
He said, he said, but he said... STOP justifiying him. Talk is cheap, judge based upon his actions not for what he says. The financial excuse is just that, an excuse.
2006-08-23 16:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok and what don't you understand about he said he doesn't want to be with you right now? Thats a pretty clear statement to me and doesn't leave a lot of room for debate. Its doesn't matter what came after that the important part of that statement is he doesn't want to be with you. Move on, trying to hang on to this is a waste of time and energy.
2006-08-23 15:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in your shoes. I've been with my BF for 1 yr and want to move in, but he says that he doesn't make enough yet to support both of us and all the payments we would have to make. I know it's easy to say move on, but it's hard to do so. So if you want to be with him do so , but dont' think that he'll want something serious in the future
2006-08-23 16:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds smart to me. Unless you make enough money to support both of you I agree with him. Sorry
2006-08-23 15:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that he is honest. You do not want to support man for ever and nothing good would come from this if you wanted to support him.
2006-08-23 16:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good guy, at least he is honest...If you love him then be there for him.. He just needs to get his feet underneath him, and everything will work out.
2006-08-23 15:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by bigblackmon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one smart guy.
2006-08-23 15:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job, then he wont have to support u ,and please go back to school and learn to f------ spell,
2006-08-23 16:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by hunglow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looser that's all i got to say
2006-08-23 15:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by HONEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋