My husband is having some problems with my family as in his inlaws but not with me he loves to so much and he said it that he knows i will always love him unconditionally but he said right now he has to make something out of his life , and he wants to be be mature and grow up and also make something out of my life, but he lives in another state and he said were just gona take a break but he calls be everyday he cares for me a lot and he loves me and he said he wount break my heart, but when we done something live achieve our then we can be together BUT GOD KNOWS that and i love him so much. and i always will and he really loves me to but whatdoes this mean.
2006-08-23 08:50:06 · 9 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good luck to you both. I don't know the whole story, but I think you'll need it. Taking a 'break' is a horrible idea!!! All it does is prolong the break up or it's just a way for someone to break up with you in stages. The "let's take a break because of this and that" conversation being the first stage of it. If you love one another then 'be' with one another. There's not many things in life that can be as black and white as this. If you love him, then be with him. Period. The end. Speaking of 'the end', was that all there was to the story or are you two having problems? I really don't think this 'break' is a break whatever the case may be. I just think it's a nice way of him to start breaking up with you. Breaks are a horrible idea/concept. They don't work even on the rare occassion that people 'take the break' to actually just take a break.
2006-08-23 08:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said,
"...he said he wount break my heart, but when we done something live achieve our then we can be together BUT GOD KNOWS that and i love him so much. and i always will and he really loves me to but whatdoes this mean."
I have no idea what that means ...
But it sounds like if your husband loves you as much as he says, he wouldn't be living in another state away from you.
2006-08-23 16:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means that he has someone else because he is tired of not having his withwife him to fulfill his physical needs.
However
After missing you from being apart, he got used to being alone and started to live the bachelor life again. Then he realized that he likes being alone and feels guilty because you have been a good wife and you have waited patiently.
He doesn't want to hurt your feelings but the truth is that you have grown apart. If he is ready to give up nowm, chances are that wheever he "achieves" what he is looking for, you may not be the opne he will share it with.
Don;t be naive and don;t wait forever, He is sugar coating the fact that he wants to break up with you.
Sorry
2006-08-23 15:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and (try) to follow this,lfirst Duhhhhhhh! he does not want,or love you! he Never Will! why do you think he does not want to be with you, it just kills me, i'm a dr of Love 15 years! now, and it kills me to think some people can be so stupid! they sit and let people walk all over them, you need to end the relationship with this Clown now! take a break for 1 year away from men, till you can settle your mind down enough to think clear! then fine yourself, a Real Man! grow up!
2006-08-23 16:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means go to him. You two should be together.
An old saying something like a woman should leave her home and a man leaves his mother, the two become as one. Love him, go to him
2006-08-23 15:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Papa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to understand your question. There are is no punctuation. Slow down. Why is your husband in another state?? Working? Are you living with your parents or his?
2006-08-23 16:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by hello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he loved you as much as he professes, he would be with you no matter where you were at.
It appears he wants his cake and to eat it also.
2006-08-23 15:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I couldn't understand your question. Couldn't understand it the first time you posted it either.
2006-08-23 15:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question?
2006-08-23 16:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋