We've been dating on and off long distance for a year..now its completly over. He has changed his mind about moving to where I live.
2006-08-23 08:46:06 · 36 answers · asked by sabsfire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
think of how stupid he really is anyway.
2006-08-23 08:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Normally when that happens you feel like this is the only person for you but if he's not willing to move or do something to help your relationship grow then he's not worth it because he doesn't value you enough - you don't want to get into a relationship on the rebound but the best cure for that is to make yourself pretty go out and get a little attention to re-affirm that you are beautiful, you still got it, and the right man will come along, in addition think of something you've always wanted to work on and go for it, whether it's losing a few pounds, or going back to school or getting a new hairstyle, when you set a goal in some area of your life and achieve it , you boost your self-esteem and self worth and that will help you get over it. Give yourself time but try not to dwell over it because he probably isn't, talk to your friends and just be social I'm sure in time you'll take a look back and say "dam what was I thinking getting involved with that guy".
2006-08-23 08:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by dee dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray, cry all u want, eat a few sweets but don't get fat on them, go work out, and stay away from dating and guys 4 a while. Also, don't watch any love movies (even though thats pretty hard 2 do lol) and talk 2 your best friend or some1 in your family u know will support u, help u and who u have a good relationship w/, and also some1 u can trust.Hope this helps!
2006-08-23 08:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let some jerk guy ruin your life. I mean if you were dating long distance already what exactly is there to miss besides the phone calls and once a month visits. Take time out for yourself and find time for you! Pamper yourself with a manicure or buy yourself something nice. When the time is right you will find Mr. Right-just dont settle for Mr. Right now!
Good Luck!
2006-08-23 08:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by "ωнαтєνѕ!" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proud enough to gut it up and go, and say "ok, I've mourned this relationship for all of five minutes and that's all it's worth. I'm moving on. Get out of my way, world!"
Find something else to do. Volunteer somewhere, take up off road biking and join your local club, take a junior college not-for-credit class - ANYTHING that will allow you to rely on yourself, and become confident in your own personal capabities. If you are self-confident, you will soon realize that the guys are just window dressing!
2006-08-23 08:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing but time, lots of chocolate ice cream, surrounding yourself with some supportive friends and having someone who will listen to you and be there for you and encourage you is of the most importance. Keep a journal to write your feelings in if you dont already. Because sometimes when we write what we are feeling it helps. Let yourself cry. and when you are ready go out and have a good time, after all theres no hurry to be in another relationship, you can go out and have a good time without depending on a guy to give you that. But save that for when you feel you are ready..
2006-08-23 08:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by hearts_bleed_dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some real closure, after that, take some time off for looking for somebody till you get over him. if you look for somebody now, you will just wish they were whoever he is. as far as getting over the guy, pick up a hobby, hang out with friends, and write a list of all the things you hated about him and read it every day untill you realize that he probably wasnt a good choice
2006-08-23 08:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by skatesa207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationship is always difficult.And if he changes his mind to move to where you are then may be he intend to move on with his life with out you. In that case you will have to try and move on with out him though hard it is. I am a firm beleiver that things happen for a reason thou painful at times.
2006-08-23 08:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take some time. With time you will get over it. sorry i wish I had a better answer than that, but it is a process. Give yourself time to heal. AND FOR YOUR SAKE PLEASE DO NOT GET INTO A REBOUND RELATIONSHIP!!! Finding a new love to fill the void in your heart will only lead to another heart breaking relationship. Invest in YOU time. Good Luck.
2006-08-23 08:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by JenUs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we were able to get over a relationship in just a day there would be no such thing as heartache...If you must, just go out and sleep with as many boys as you can until you've forgotten about him...Don't blame me though when you get a bad rep.
2006-08-23 08:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Uh-May-Zing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's hard to get over at first, honey, but it's going to take more than a day. SORRY! Just be patient. Let your heart heel, and keep yourself busy! You'll be just fine.
2006-08-23 08:48:34 · answer #11 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋