I was on a roller coaster ride with my sister n law and she tried to put the moves on me?
When we got off the ride my wife called and I didn't have the heart to tell her......
2006-08-23 08:40:45 · 20 answers · asked by hfacto 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask yourself this one question. Would I want/expect my wife to tell me? Your wife has every right to know as this is very disrespectful to her. She won't appreciate finding out in the future if the situation don't resolve.
2006-08-23 09:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a chat with your wife alone, one on one.
Explain to her that this is hard for you to tell her but that when you were on the roller coaster with her sister, she tried to put the moves on you.
Inform her that you just want to tell her so she can possibly sit down with her sister and see what this is about because you have no interest in her sister and are completely faithful to her.
2006-08-23 15:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell your wife. Nothing happened right? So telling her will only cause pain between her and her sister.
However if your sister tries it on again, I'd tell HER in no uncertain terms that you 1) are not interested, 2) find what she's doing really disrespectful because you are married to her sister and 3) will be telling your wife if she doesn't stop.
2006-08-23 16:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by hannahbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that really sucks. I think I would tell your sister in law where it is right now and very firmly. Let her know if it happens again your going to stop speaking to her all together and when your wife asks why, she will directed to her sister for the answer.
2006-08-23 15:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her. The last thing you need is you sister-in-law saying something different. I would also tell the s-i-l that what she did was not behavior you want or expect from her. Remind her you are married to her sister and let her know you will be discussing this with her ASAP.
2006-08-23 15:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by wiazardofoz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either tell your wife and watch the cat fight, have a talk with your sister in law and watch her lie her butt off or not say anything and stay away from her.
2006-08-23 15:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should I do is the question you should be asking your wife! Your sister in-law must not respect you or your wife or your marriage she is out of line. Your wife should be your best friend and you should confide in her.
2006-08-23 16:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Douggers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing to tell her -- did you accept the moves put on you? or did you tell her to back off? this is your delimma, not your wife's. if the sister in law continues after you tell her no, then you may want to let your wife know that you dodged her advances, but she keeps on and maybe your wife can explain it better to her.
2006-08-23 15:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur wife..before the sister in law tells ur wife u made the move on her
2006-08-23 15:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by Evaluate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy are you trying to muster courage to tell your wife about the episode? You should have used your courage sometimes earlier to tell your sis n law to stay away. Be careful with your heart if you want your marriage to survive.
2006-08-23 16:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by ingos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋