I am a divorced woman for the last 2 1/2 years. I have been dating a man whom I've know for over 20 years(he's divorced also) We have been dating for almost 1 year.
Problem:
He can't seem to let go of his ex-wife. He tell's me the only reason he spends time with her is because of the kids. They want her to join them when they go to a movie,out to dinner etc.
Should I stay or go?
2006-08-23 08:35:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
His ex will always be in his life because of the kids. The question is how much do u trust him? If u trust him then there should not be any trouble. If you think its going to be a problem then you need to talk to him. You have to make a decision on how much you love him. If you love him with all your heart then you will do anything to stay with him. Your choice.
2006-08-23 09:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by jesus_freak_sm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends.
I think you should sit down with him and have a serious conversation.
And by serious, i mean you tell him exactly how you feel about EVERYTHING!
It's not right for him to hold on to a person he's not with.
Life is about choices.
And something obviously happened to break them apart.
And you've known him for so long. You should know him well.
Like his behaviour and attitude.
And if he's just not ready for another relationship, let it go.
Life is too short to waste on a person who's not fully committed to you.
2006-08-23 15:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by falzalnz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's an easy one. Get rid of him. If he's been divorced that long and can't let go, why waste your time?
2006-08-23 15:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run!!! If he can't let her go.....He's not going too....You might end up in divorce number 2.
2006-08-23 15:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by bigblackmon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has issues still. If it is preventing your relationship from growing, maybe it is time to move on before you get more involved...
2006-08-23 15:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by g m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go but you ned to make that decission for yourself. It's easy to ask for advice, hard to follow.
2006-08-23 15:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They will always be part of his life.
Get used to it.
If you don't trust him, it's time to move on.
2006-08-23 16:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go
2006-08-23 22:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋