She found out that the baby was dead, what advice can I offer her to help comfort her in this state of shock. She learned that the baby may have died by her being obese and having diabetic and heart problems. Do anyone have the best solution?
2006-08-23 08:24:54 · 9 answers · asked by Tipp Renee' 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there isnt much that u can say or do to help her. the loss of someone that ur close to affects everyone differently.
a child is something that is more than anyone should have to deal with the loss, however no one knos God's plan. all she can do at the moment is just go each day at a time.
i kno its gonna b hard for her. just b there for her and offer to lend her a hand in everyday stuff - cook her meals, help clean up, just b there for her and listen if she wants to talk.
i kno that life is bad at times, and i have personally seen some of those bad times. ive had a miscarriage b4 and that to me was the worst at the time(it was my second pregnancy too at the time) and i lost a daughter this jan to a wacked out driver who didnt kno how to drive.
one thing that has helped me is the fact that my friends r here and have been helping me, just b there for her for whatever she needs
2006-08-23 08:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by fuzzycakes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there really isn't anything you can say to make it all better. There are no magic words of comfort you can give. All you can do, as her friend, is to be there for her. Let her talk, you listen. Hold her hand, and give her a shoulder to cry on. Any medical advice should come from her doctors. Try to keep her spirits up and her attitude upbeat. Don't let her drown in self pity. Do "normal" things with her, and make her laugh if you can. Give her a chance to get her mind off "it" for a while. A friend's job is to be a friend. A doctor's job is to give medical advice.
2006-08-23 08:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing you can say or do except be there for her my sister lost her first baby full term died 5 days before due date and it was really hard for her i just cried with her and listened to her it has been 15 years she has never had childern but i include her in all my childrens special occasions.It is still hard for her. Maybe a berievement group would do her good.
2006-08-23 08:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by farmerwoman4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your selfish irresponsible pal that ingesting can damage her infant completely the youngster will be born with fetal alcohol syndrome, be mentally retarded or produce different severe well being subject matters like getting to carry close issues or international developmental postpone, if she loves her drink a lot then she might want to no longer are growing pregnant... also once infant is born how is she going to safeguard it suited if she is pissed each and each of the time, i think so sorry for this baby being born into the hands of a heartless, self targeted mom
2016-11-27 01:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by dalhaus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is to stay by her side and let her know that everything is going to be okay. I have Diabetes and i lost my baby to and i wish i had a friend that was by my side.
2006-08-23 08:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by teetee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no true way to console someone that has lost a child or miscarried. Just be there for her and let her know that she stills has a child to live for. Time will heal
2006-08-23 08:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should probably try to solve that weight issue first. But you should tell her that she will have other pregancies, but if she doesn't take care of this problem then she won't be able to have another child.
2006-08-23 08:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No real advice you can offer her, other then be supportive towards her.
2006-08-23 08:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's really nothing you can do that right there only time can heal the pain just let her that you're hear for them
2006-08-23 08:30:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋