I was 14 weeks pregnant in December of 03 and miscarried. It is now August of 06 and have tried everything to get pregnant. I am really wanting a baby and we know everything works what is going on.
With my miscarriage I had a D&C and they said everything looked normal and mus have been chromasonal.
2006-08-23 08:14:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Please no rude answers. I can not believe some of things people post. Think of it as you are in my shoes.
2006-08-23 08:24:58 · update #1
Just because you conceived once doesn't mean you can easily get pregnant on your own. Go to your OB and let him/her know you are ttc. If he/she doesn't believe you have any fertility problems then go to another OB or to a fertility specialist. You might not ovulate regularly, or too late in your cycle to sustain a pregnancy. I miscarried in Dec 03 as well, at 9 weeks. I also had a D&C. I don't know why they told you it must have been chromosonal - I don't think they even know that early on.
I got pregnant again in Sept 04, but only after my OB did a laparoscopy to find out what was going on and discovered I had endometriosis (which he removed) and a luteal phase defect (which means my uterus lining doesn't get thick enough for the egg to implant good enough). This was probably the reason for my miscarriage. In addition to the Clomid I was taking to help me ovulate, my doctor gave me progesterone to take from day 16 of my cycle until I started my period, or in this case since I got pregnant, until the end of my first trimester. Progesterone helps to thicken the lining of your uterus. I had a healthy baby girl in Jun 06.
I am in the 2nd month ttc another baby. Best of luck to you. BTW - not all fertility treatments are expensive. Clomid runs me about $15/month. The progesterone isn't considered a fertility drug since, so I just have to pay my insurance co-pay.
2006-08-23 08:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 21:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope this isn't a dumb question, but who evaluated your fertility situation and said that everything was OK? I spent years with fertility doctors, had 5 miscarriages after the birth of my son. We finally had another baby after 11 years. But my OB/gyn kept saying all was OK and it turned out to be this wierd hormonal thing that only the infertility specialist picked up on. Maybe, if you haven't already done so, you should make an appointment with an infertility specialist. Good luck and I am so sorry about your loss!
2006-08-23 15:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage in Feb. of 05 and I have not been able to get pregnant either. I have tried and done every thing to get pregnant. I know going to a new doctor (OBGYN) to help me. He has done blood work to check my thyroid and ovaries and more. If u have any more questions or would just like to talk e-mail me at Njacobs7477@yahoo.com. I know how u feel. I want a child badly.
2006-08-23 08:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by njacobs7477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
note: headneckchest is an jackass...bless his poor kids' hearts.
Now, that being said, I am sorry for your loss. I m/c in Dec 05. I have not been able to get preg since. However, everyone is different. Have you had your husband go in for testing too? Sometimes that is the problem. Even if things were ok back in 03, you may need to update your testing.
2006-08-23 14:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your loss((HUGS)) Try this, relax and stop stressing! Your body and God knows when it's best for you to have a baby! You can help yourself and baby by taking care of yourself before and after by doing these things take fish oil with Omega3&6 , calcium supplements like Caltrate,vitaminC&E ,Centrum multivitamins and flaxseed oil after you ovulate until cycle day 1. Adding exercise 3 or 4 times a week for 30 minutes also helps, adding fruits and veggies and NO STRESS!!Here are some sites that may help you tryingtoconceive.com, fertilaid.com , www.ovulex.com, and ferilityformulas.comI hope this helps you! Good luck God bless and loooooooooooooooooots of baby dust to you!!!!!
2006-08-23 08:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by KK 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Like I tell anyone that is trying, stop trying. I know it sounds backwards, but it works. I think it has to do with a long time ago when times were harder. Stress means things are wrong. So being overstressed causes your body to be less likely to carry a child because its bad timing. Maybe it sounds dorky to you, but it seems to hold true. So try your best to quit trying and just live your life. Stop thinking about a baby every day. Enjoy your husband and just live. Make a list of things ya'll would like to do before baby comes and start doing those things. Tell yourself that baby is comming, its just picking its own conception and birth date. Then give it to God and be happy. You know you are both capable of conceiving a child. So quit worrying about it and instead just trust.
2006-08-23 08:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish I could help. But I feel your pain. I had a m/c in march and had a D&C. Isn't it scary that they went inside and could have done damage that you wouldn't know about. I hated it. I'm still nervous that everything is not alright....I'm sure it is though. Just ttc after you already have is aweful. Best of luck!
2006-08-23 08:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun relax I know it sounds easy for me to set and say that. I had one in Jan. 06 and did not get preg. till June. Try having sex EVERY 2 DAYS! That helped me after I gave up and just did that. BEST WISHES.
2006-08-23 08:17:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't want to worry you or anything but I miscarried in '00, and got pregnamt and carried to term in '04, but I am very infertile and also an older mom..when it wants to happen it will, you should talk to your doctor about your health now, perhaps they will suggest fertility drugs or something to "kick start" your chances..good luck
2006-08-23 08:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by Selena D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋