...if you found that your wife/husband is having a secret affair with your neighbour whose wife/husband you are attracted to?
a little reasoning will help. this is very important for me. will be indebted for a nice piece of advice. thanks.
2006-08-23 08:08:47 · 24 answers · asked by Pratim 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You have too many options on your plate, I guess it depends on how deeply your in love with your mate, How seriously do you take your wedding vows, and What is your personal "lifestyle", I would be crushed If my husband were to cheat on me. Regardless if I found that persons mate even slightly attractive. I feel you are pondering acting on your suppressed impulses to seduce your neighbor. Hopefully you will talk to your mate first before making a rash decision and possibly a devastating mistake. My advice is have a serious open discussion with your other half and see where it goes from there. Good Luck
2006-08-23 08:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Erin O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don;t go down to her level... first you need to arrange your finances and deeds then divorce her. Then you can be attracted to anyone. But in most states if you can "prove" adultery then you get a 70-30 split instead of 50-50. So get you some good pics and nail her to the floor. You do however need to go tell the whole neighborhood and his wife what they are doing. Trashy!
2006-08-23 15:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform your neighbor (wife/husband) about the affair then file for divorce and then if the attraction is still there between you and this other person then go for it!
2006-08-23 15:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by stormy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for every action there is a equal and opposite reaction
but my dear buddy
newtons law is not applicable to life's relations
what u think abt ur wife may be absolutely wrong since u r assuming things
just think if u enter a relation with the lady next door and later come to know ur wife was not cheating on u...... then u might consider suicide for what u have done
2006-08-24 02:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by shaikh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your spouse that you know about the affair. Get some counseling. Also, stay away from the neibors spouse you are attracted too. Down the road if you start adultery, it will harm you. Get help from a good counselor.
2006-08-23 15:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife to leave or you leave her. If your neighbors wife is attracted to you ask her out, but wait until after you and your wife have seperated,
Dont forget if someone is unfaithful once they will be again no matter how many promises they make telling you they will never do it again. Good luck.
2006-08-25 18:49:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anna B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all take your spouse to a theatre to watch KABHI ALVIDA NA KEHNA. And after it during lunch discuss the entire thing and try to sort it out with a mutual conclusion.
Hope that will help.
Gud Luk
2006-08-23 15:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Abdullah A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus simple.... in return...you have a secret affair with your neighbour's wife/husband.....
every action has a equal and oppaosite reaction
2006-08-23 19:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by cool_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little wife swapping never hurt anyone. i would do the neighbor once and then you all should have a sit down and get it out in the open. why be neighbors, when you can all sleep under the same roof.
2006-08-23 15:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by chris j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it seems tempting to just go and jump in bed with the other spouse but try and resist. talk with your spouse and let them know you know and ask them what they want to d oabout this situation. who know maybe you all can get together and have a big orgy...it could happen. but be honest with your spouse and let them know how you feel and se how they feel and see what happen only time can tell and two wrongs don't make a right....they just put you back in the same direction you were already going
2006-08-23 15:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by ~Saratini~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋