my friend lies a lot. she said she had a boyfriend which was one of my bestfriends, so i asked him and he said no he wasnt going out with her. i didnt take that to seriously but then she started saying "oh im so rich i have this and that and...." i've been to her house and she doesnt have all the things that she said she has.
she is really sensitive to. if you say something that is meen you are probably going to be spending your lunch in the teachers room because she will make it a bigger deal then it really is.
if i get into a fight with her, she wont talk about it. she will just ignore me and there is nothing i can do until she comes and talks to me.
she use to be my best friend but now im not so sure... is she a real friend or a fake?
2006-08-23 08:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by im_a_roxstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That means she's not your friend...friendship is not based on lies and deciet...friendship is based on trust...if she doesn't understand that then she not really your friend..
2006-08-23 08:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by smurfy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like your friend is out for attention, for whatever reason... If she really is a true friend, she would and should be able to tell you the truth about things... Whether good or bad, she should trust you enough to know, that you will not judge her for who she is, what she has and doesn't have...
I would sit her down and have a serious conversation with her. Let her know, how you feel. If she doens't respond and continues her way, then cut her off. But let her know that. Let her know that you don't want to be playing games with her. That there is no need for lies etc....
Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-08-23 08:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds both immature and insecure. Your choice whether you want to put up with that. If she is there for you regardless of that stuff, then I would say she is a "real" friend. She does have problems though, and they are the kind nobody but her can fix.
2006-08-23 08:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can be both.. maybe she's just showing time in front of other people.. but don't put her on blast for it.. as long as she's keeping it real w/u then u and her should still be friends... and as long as she ain't tryna play u then u good..
but if she acting like that to u then u need to brush her off more then a lil bit...
2006-08-23 08:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋