im kinda nervous. im 16 and im ready
2006-08-23 07:48:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Whatever you chose use a condom.STD's are everywhere
2006-08-23 07:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U may think ur ready, but ru aware of the many risks of having sex? Sex changes everything, and although u may feel that ur bf loves u and vice versa, guys only want 1 thing- I'm sure u've heard it before. Why not wait until u know ur w/ the right guy, like ur husband? RU sure this is what u want? Make sure that if it's a decision u are going 2 make, use protection. Also stay safe, no matter what ur guy says. Ru sure u don't want 2 stick w/ dry sex or "grinding", as u mentioned? It's much safer and there aren't many risks. Whatever u choose, please make the correct choice for u and ur future. Good blessings!
2006-08-23 14:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could say your too young, don't do it. I could say it's not a good idea. but your going to do what you want to do. Bottom line is if you think your ready, you will be nervous no matter what. it is something new you have a lot of questions. again, I know your young, and Im not SUGGESTING you do this, Im saying if you DO, just try to relax, and be smart, USE PROTECTION.
you may be ready for sex, but Im sure your not ready to raise a child. Keep that in mind. and also you dont have to have sex with someone just because they want to. Make sure you really want to. Good luck, be smart, and be careful.
2006-08-23 14:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by MZ02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't ready for sex. How do I know?
Nerves
Had your clothes on (didn't want him to see you naked)
You say you're ready for sex. OK, here's your concrete test:
1. Are you ready to have a baby? (There is NO SAFE SEX, you can get pregnant regardless of the protection you use).
2. You are ready for many people to see you naked (your boyfriend, your doctor, etc)
3. You are ready for the guilt and worry that sex can bring outside of marriage (am I going to get caught--you are; am I pregnant? will my parents find out--they will, will my bf stay around--he won't, shall I go on)
4. When you get pregnant (and you will if you have sex--maybe not the first time, but you will) am I financially, emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually ready for the new life I will bring into the world?
5. Am I ready to leave school and support myself? (you might have to)
6. Am I willing to give up my credibility and reputation?
Finally, am I willing to give up the ONLY thing I can give to my future husband that ONLY I can give him (my virginity) and explain to him why he's not the first?
Tough answer, huh? Maybe you ought to realize what you are thinking of doing, huh?
2006-08-23 16:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk with your parents...you really should consider this bcause if you asked this questions it means that you wanted the serious opinions of others not so that people could tell you that you're not ready....the thing is that there's no real age to be ready everyone's experience is different and everyone's age at that time is different.....there's no such thing as ready just cautious or knowledgable as in you should know about STD'S and if you've been tested for aids and other such diseases.....and you should talk to your parents cause they deserve to know.....you should also ask your boyfriend if he's talked with his parents and if he's tested.....if he's taken the proper precautions....I think that you should ask yourself if this is the person that you want to have something as special as this with....
2006-08-23 15:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by girl class of 2006!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you have sex with your clothes on? You think you are ready for sex but are you ready for the things that can happen from sex? Not only pregnancy BUT diseases like AIDS, Venereal diseases, warts, crabs all the things you are not ready for with sex. Educate yourself and protect yourself and HAVE RESPECT for yourself, because if you don't neither will anyone else!
Good Luck honey, it's a nasty world if your not careful you will get dirty
2006-08-23 14:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex without pregnancy protection that works. If u cannot talk to your parents, maybe another older relative? Do not get pregnant at 16 cuz then the options are lousy.
2006-08-23 14:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you feel ready then nobody can stop you. Just make sure that your boyfriend and you are bother serious with one another, I wouldn't want you to have sex with him and end up hurt.
If you have any second thoughts, wait it out.
2006-08-23 15:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him put a wedding ring on your finger. Then make love. You are only 16! Way too young to make love or have a baby!
2006-08-23 15:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experience I would wait... your only 16 and if you are certain that you are ready ask your parents to put you on birth control you don't want to get pregnant at 16......
2006-08-23 14:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by AmandaB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your are really stupid if you think bcus your are "16' you are ready. who cares !! Face your studies, take your vitamins,and say your prayers. Oh it's true. You have to stop fornicating. Remember what the bible says.
2006-08-23 21:41:23 · answer #11 · answered by Agentj100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋