To me, helping someone, can be done in a multitude of ways. I spend every day of my life, looking for a way to help someone.
To have compassion and empathy for people are concrete ways to help them. Some of the greatest gifts in the world, are given without money. Alot of times, simple gestures can go a long way. Maybe a friendly wave, maybe one simple glance and smile to a stranger, or maybe giving a high five to a little kid. I found, the most rewarding thing sometimes, is to just strike up a conversation. In my town, there is alot of poverty. When I am out and about, I see folks here and there with their head hung low and an expression of sadness on their face. I walk right up to them and just start talking. At first they are skeptical of me, but as I keep on talking, they see that I am just like they are. Pretty soon, their whole body language changes from droopy, to happy. When it's time for me to leave, they are smiling, and their eyes are shining. I know then, that just by making small talk, I have brightened someone's day. And it feel so awesome inside.
My best friend is going through a hard time right now with her guy. When she's down, I visit with her just to listen. When she's not expecting it, I start in with my off the wall humor. Most of the time, I see her smile, so I know at least a little of the saddness is going away.
I can't stand to see people suffer. Whatever way I can help them feel better, I do it. I don't think I could live a peaceful life if I ever stopped helping people. I think mine would become seriously stressful.
My advice to everyone, is to continually seek out ways to help others. Seek out others who need help but won't say. God looks very kindly on those who help His people when their down and out.
2006-08-23 15:17:53
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answered by Dorie 3
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Make a miserable looking person, say a bored store clerk, laugh or even smile. I once brought a thanksgiving dinner plate to a convenience store clerk that was stuck working on thanksgiving, it almost made her cry. Be nice to people, there is so little of that, life is so hard and a smile can turn someones day around.
2006-08-23 14:59:00
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answered by crct2004 6
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I would help someone if i know that he is in deep trouble like needing some food,or needing clothings and give money for the heart and kidney foundation.I mabe not rich but i have a great golden heart.
2006-08-23 15:48:25
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answered by none 5
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A good generic definition of "help" is to give someone something they need -- could be money, could be information, could be a ride into town when they have a flat tire, could be advice when they're not sure what they should do, etc.
2006-08-23 14:45:35
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answered by sarge927 7
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his is not the matter whether u hav money or not to help someone
i think a simple sweet word can make a sad person happy
u jst give ur hand in his/her hand and tell i m always with u dnt worry
it will work faster more than i u help them by money
2006-08-23 14:49:22
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answered by aashi 2
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it gives me great satisfaction in helping others
money is not always the answer, help in other ways are good, it can be from a to z, listening to someone, taking them someplace, etc...
it depends what the person needs or wants help with
2006-08-24 20:14:04
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answered by walterknowsall 5
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Do something to someone, without regret and don't expect
something back;
so ,you giving up or sacrifices, in order to help!
2006-08-23 15:19:18
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answered by Teal 7
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Help is giving to others without waiting to give you back something.
2006-08-23 14:47:01
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answered by andelska 3
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To give of one's self; to assist another. There are many ways to do this. One of the most important ways, that people often overlook, is to give the gift of listening.
2006-08-23 14:48:49
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answered by Rhonda 7
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helping someone isn't alawys money clothes or charity sometimes it can be jus by giving them a new perspective or outlook on life
2006-08-23 15:20:35
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answered by black_caspa69 1
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