I love my x girlfriend and would love to be with her, but I would miss my kids and I'm still in love with my x wife, even though she doesn't seem to give a rats *** about me, what to do? What do you guys think? I've lived in Wisconsin for 32 years and have never lived anywhere else!
2006-08-23 07:37:36 · 7 answers · asked by Jacob K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay close to your children. The exes have already proven that they are not right for you...that's why they are exes. The children are the important part of your life. Bad things will happen if you leave your kids for something that has already proven to be a failure. It's interesting that you haven't put whether you ex g/f wants to be with you too. Don't go chasing after things that won't work out. Stay where you are, and hey, maybe you'll find someone new that will treat you good? Don't dwell on the "having to have a g/f" issue. It will happen, just don't rush it. Remember, good things come to those who wait. :)
Maybe you could talk to your wife about why she doesn't give a rat's butt about you? Don't argue with her, just listen to what she has to say. Then maybe you will have a better relationship with her too. Forget about the girlfriend, she has already shown you that her leaving your area means that it's over. She's moving on, you need to do the same.
2006-08-23 07:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I listen is me me me! might want to you leave your son? might want to you want it if he had subject matters and necessary to make certain a therapist and your husband did not like him? You moved for "economic" causes? I rather stay in a shack and be on the breaking point of my youngsters, then have a sensible domicile in a diverse state wherein i'd not see all of them the time. each 3 months? So... that would sense good about you? no longer seeing your son? lady, you're undesirable, selfish and that is a no ask your self he needs out! at the same time as it comprises your children... they arrive FIRST no remember what! i do not blame him one bit for saying he should be close to his children and of their lives. He did not comprehend the way it would want to sense to be away, now he does and it likely feels awful. specifically because he sees your baby on a daily basis, one which couldn't even his. I stay in CA. i'm a unmarried make certain, I make a sturdy residing and make it. My daughter, who's 22 years old, lives which includes her boyfriend and they have a baby, in CA and they make it basically effective... it really is an excuse.. you do what you want to do! i might want to propose getting a divorce. you're literally not waiting to be a step mom in any respect. children have subject matters, no matter if or not they're your children or your husbands, you ought to handle them, even with the undeniable fact that it sounds to me like you fairly do not want to.
2016-11-27 01:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
X MEANS YOU ARE NO LONGER A COUPLE, RIGHT. If I loved where I was living I would not move to someone's else domain. Plus if you have children you need to make sacifice to be close to them not to please just yourself. I would put more into a close relationship with my children and be there when thety need me. Think what would be best for the children , please don't abondon them and end up on the Montell Williams show some years later with no explanation.
2006-08-23 07:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Beulah L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm a woman and a mom.. and u should choose ur kids over ur exwife and ur exgirlfriend.. right now neither of them should be an option cause they r both exes.. but ur children r.. u need to think of them and how they'll miss u and how it'll affect them if u leave.. if u r consistent in their life then u need to remain that way.. i can't believe ur even making this an option.. this is a no brainer....
u can find love w/someone else and still be w/ur children....
2006-08-23 07:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it, go. You only live once. Your ex seem to have something solid. And you need to tap into something different. Once you leave, your ex may try and step up her game. But, don't sell yourself short by not giving your all to your new girlfriend. Go, see how it feels and make a decsion from there......
Best wishes
2006-08-23 07:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Mid S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your EX girlfriend or your EX wife? Have you seen a therapist?Why are they your EX anything? Work?Money issues?Sex? for now,stay close to your kids,they still need you.
2006-08-23 07:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Maw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EX GIRLFRIEND, EX WIFE = NOTHING, BUT YOUR CHILDREN MEAN THE WORLD TO YOU,
JUST THINK ABOUT IT AND YOU'LL BE HAPPY TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION GOOD LUCK OK !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-23 07:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Kettlygold k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋