Girls...what do I do?

Question

I have this habit of sliping my shoes off at the office, and playing with them...whatever...its more comfotable...anyways, when i do this, one of my male co-workers constantly stares and stares at my legs and feet. It sooooo annoying ..I cant even move my leg or foot without him staring...I have tried to ask him if he was ok...and he says hes fine...What can i do to get him to stop staring? I like being confortable at the office and i have a habit of not sitting still., so the shoes have to be off....lol...any advice?

Answer 1

Sounds like he has a foot fetish. Not much you can do about it, unless you want to take off your shoes and put a comfortable pair of slippers on.
Personally, I'd be flattered that he thought I had such pretty feet. But I understand that after awhile it makes you uncomfortable.

Maybe you should just come right out and ask him if you taking your shoes off makes him uncomfortable, cuz you noticed that he's always looking. Might embarrass him enough to make him stop, or if not stop, at least curb it a bit.

Answer 2

slipping your shoes off and playing with them is a movement which catches the attention of both males and females in an office. for the females, they see it with disgust because it is not feminine , more so not a proper decorum in an office. if you want to feel comfortable, bring a slip on slipper and wear it only while you are seated at your desk. for the males, it is a provocative action and they can't help but stare. it is not justified but act accordingly and don't ask for it.

Answer 3

I had a girl that worked for me at the salon who would occasionally do this and we finally had to tell her she had bad foot odor....could that be your problem? That smell carries across a room more than you know.
Some people (my mother) are disturbed at anyone who goes barefoot--even for a second--in a public place. She claims to know someone who got that human foot and mouth disease that way...maybe this is his issue...
This is what I am betting it is though...Are you accidently being sexy? Guys like feet sometimes. In which case you are comfortable at the expense of his (or at his delight). Either way...Maybe get some big silly fluffy socks to put on...not so sexy but very comfy.

Answer 4

haha i read your question and had the same response as the first two people. But that might cause him to stare more. Just try ignore him he may have a foot or leg fetish.

Answer 5

Just tell him my eyes are up here! And besides, its a compliment! He must think your pretty hot to stare at you so care, but dont care too much because if one guy likes your legs i bet a bunch do! lol

Answer 6

Dont' shave your legs for a while. then he'll stop staring... then he'll start the rumor that you dont' shave your legs but by then you will have shaved and he'll look like the idiot. or
In a washable marker write on your legs, STOP STARING For him to see.....

Answer 7

if it's really bugging you and making you feel uncomfortable, then i think you just have to confront him. tell him to back off, tell him it makes you uncomfortable. that's kind of creepy if you ask me. you could make a point of like moving your legs away from him when he's looking or something.
hope that helped... good luck!

Answer 8

tell him u feel uncomfortable w/ him staring at ur leg all the time.

Answer 9

he probably has a foot fetish.. my guess.. The only way for him to stop is for you to say something.. Otherwise just accept it..

Answer 10

Stick something in front of your desk. That way, he can't see your legs.