Well I have twin girls they both have green eyes, brown hair and they're two years old each. I want to get a job to by a house because am living with my mom am only 18 because when I was 16 my ex abused me. I already my diploma to be a nurse assistant but I found a job. I cant leave my kids with someone else they only listen to me what should I do.
2006-08-23 07:28:30 · 11 answers · asked by ~~~baby boo 4 life~~~~~~~~a.k.a 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Your kids will be fine with someone else. They will be taught to listen.
Go work and make a life for yourself. Good luck
2006-08-23 07:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a single mom I completely understand your battles. My son is 7 now and all I can tell you is that it will get better. It is great that you have the diploma and will be able to get a job. Try to apply fr some type of daycare assistance through the department of social services. If that doesn't work then let me know, If I don't have anything else, I have ideas.....good luck!! Pray!!
2006-08-23 07:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by jaybeeshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you don't have too many options right now. The girls are at an age where it's not only physically ok for them to be in someone else's care, but mentally, it would nbe good too. They need to learn to interact with otehr kids, learn to share, learn that rules are not just set by you. They may not be the most cooperative girls at first, but over time when they realize that they won't get their way by resisting, they'll fall into line. If not, there's always nanny 911 ;-)
Good luck, that's great that you found a job you're looking forward too!!!
2006-08-23 07:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by helpplz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to them and make them understand whats going on right now! Kids are very smart! despite their age your kids probably understand more then you think that they do!
Tell them that mommy has to work so that you guys can get your own house! In order for you to work they have to go to a sitter cause you want to make their life better!
I know that the idea of leaving your kids with a sitter is a nightmare! I'm a new mom I just decided that since my baby is 7 months I should return to work! Just remember to do you research!
B4 deciding on what sitter you should go with check to see if they have had complaint's and if so what were they?
Check the people out thoroughly!
2006-08-23 07:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you're going to have to bite the bullet and put them in daycare. They might have a tough time at first, but if you find a good daycare provider and show your kids you are serious about this, then they'll learn to listen to the daycare provider.
I used to be a nurse's aid, are you thinking of working in a hospital, resthome or home health care?
2006-08-23 07:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think they only listen to you, but they would listen to other people. I have babysit for a long time and kids always listen better to someone other than their parents. If you have a job don't let it slip out of your fingers! Apply for it and find a babysitter and start working! I hope things work out....
2006-08-23 07:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the position is your husband in all this? in the journey that your husband isn't adamantly protecting you as his spouse and telling his mum and dad to stay out of your relationship, then I worry that you're in for an exceedingly very lengthy and frustrating existence if this isn't addressed at the moment. If he does no longer attempt this, then I strongly advise you re-go on your concepts because it really is unquestionably a recipe for disaster. in the journey that your husband does no longer upward thrust up and decrease back you besides as obviously convey to his mum and dad that good day haven't any company telling you what to do or a thanks to stay, he's not worth of you. user-friendly as that. you've been no longer positioned in this earth basically to furnish such egomaniacs with a grandchild. you've an exact to be at liberty . Grandparents haven't any RIGHTS at the same time as it comprises children. they could basically have privileges , and also you and your husband are those to furnish those privileges, depending on the behaviour of reported grandparents. regularly human beings have a tendency to ignore that. I truly desire you detect a answer on your sake and that of the youngster.
2016-11-27 00:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you live with your mom then your girls should be ok with her and if your mom works days get a night job and that should solve the problem of a baby sitter>
2006-08-23 07:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start socializing them, give them to your mom for a week, or your dad, or a trusted friend.
2006-08-23 07:34:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does their hair and eye color have to do with all this?
2006-08-23 08:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by alecnaaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋