my boyfriend wants me to mail him an money so he can hve some money when he gets out should i mail him an money order
2006-08-23 07:22:38 · 25 answers · asked by Thomas wife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know it's easy to say no like everyone else has since it looks like your boyfriend is in prison, and I know it's easier said than done to walk away from someone, but if you decide to stay with this person then now is the time to set some parameters, and start by not supporting him financially, supporting him emotionally is enough - if you start giving him money now it will continue when he is out because it will be hard for him to get a job having a record, and if you're dishing out money here and there before you know it you will have a dependant. Tell him you wish you could but you have bills, school, etc whatever excuse you can think of that way he knows when he gets out he will have to make his own way and cannot expect you to dish out money just so he can have some. Being supportive emotionally, or cooking a few meals to show love is enough, he should be more concerned with seeing you anyway and thankful that you still chose him - not just having money to burn.
2006-08-23 08:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by dee dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if he's in jail I'm sure he has a bf by now, he's probably been cheating on you the entire time he has been in there. And I bet he has other girls that's sending him money also. Don't be stupid. He has parents and probably siblings. Dump the jail bird, it's nothing a man in jail can do for you, except write letters, talking about how he's going to do better once he gets out. Yeah right. lol
2006-08-23 07:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by dreamee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No do not mail him any money! If he needs a ride when he gets out, arrange it....what would he need money for before he comes home to you?
2006-08-23 07:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send him a money order. Instead send him a blank check from your persoanl account. I think that would work the best.
2006-08-23 07:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is he getting out from?? Does he plan on paying you back? If you're sending it to a correctional intuition, it might take a while before he gets it.
2006-08-23 07:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T SEND HIM ANY MONEY. HE SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THAT WHILE HE WAS DOING THE CRIME. I KNOW YOU WANT TO DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN FOR HIM, BUT HE NEEDS TO DO A LOT FOR HIMSELF AND SENDING HIM MONEY IS NOT GOING TO HELP. I'VE BEEN THERE!!!!!! (WELL, NOT IN JAIL, BUT HAD A MAN THAT WAS). IT'S REALLY NOT WORTH IT, IT MAY SEEM LIKE IT NOW BUT WHEN YOU GET OLDER, YOU'LL REALIZE THAT THAT'S NOT THE LIFE YOU WANT TO LIVE. TRUST ME.
2006-08-23 07:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am guessing you mean when he gets out if jail. No, I wouldn't mail him anything!
2006-08-23 07:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean get out of jail, rehab or marriage, absolutely not. Have you ever seen Judge Judy? You will never see it again.
2006-08-23 07:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gets out of jail...?
Maybe Western Union? 20 bucks...HA
2006-08-23 07:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should however, send a money order to a psychiatrist
2006-08-23 07:25:52 · answer #10 · answered by kdj204 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋