im 19 and im pregnant wit my bf who hits me al the time and i was gonna brake up wit him but now i dunno cuz im pregnant wit his daughter wat should i do
2006-08-23 06:55:45 · 10 answers · asked by pink_panther112594 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
break up with him.
your daughter will grow up and see that you get hit and then think its ok.
so if not for your physical safety, do it for her.
he might physically or sexually abuse her too. it only gets worse. you could die. and she could too. dont end up like those sad ladies on Maury Povich. stand up for yourself and leave.
and make him pay child support.
go to your city courthouse and file for an order of protection. also, ask them there where you can go for a battered womans shelter where he cant find you, they are confidential.
then see if you can move away or get governmental help. ask your family for help and the local police.
2006-08-23 07:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how pregnant you are I would recommend that you terminate the pregnancy. At 19 you have your whole life ahead of you. If your boyfriend is abusive, bringing a child into the situation is not going to make it stop. In fact it could worsen because what happens when he starts to hit your daughter?, or if you stay and she learns to equate abuse with love. Children learn by example. Don't walk. Run! Now.
2006-08-23 07:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by smartypants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him hit you ever. My b/f just walked out on us (im 6 months pregnant) and i feel super alone but its getting better. Sometimes I wish I had a reason to hate him like that he hit me. So even if you are pregnant you have to do what is best for you baby. You ever know one day he might he you so bad that you might fall and lose the baby. He walked out on us and i love my baby more than ever because he is all I got. You will feel the same way.
2006-08-23 08:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by Noah's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, he's not the kind of guy who deserves to have anyone and definately isnt fit to be a father, you and your daughter would do fine without him, report the abuse to the authorities if you feel strong enough to. Even when you are free from him he will have affected you so please dont let him make you think that all us guys are like him. Good luck and i hope for your sake and that of your daughter things work out well for you
2006-08-23 07:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave him. What are you going to do when your daughter gets old enough to ask mommy why you have a black eye. Or what happens when he hits her? You owe that baby the best life a life w/out violence that you can give her. LEAVE HIM
2006-08-23 07:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hits on you pregnant or not leave him.
if he can hit you then aren't you afraid he could do the same to your baby?
Don't take the chance you and your child need better than that....
2006-08-23 07:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by poisondragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better leave him now before he hits to the point that you lose your daughter....or when the baby is born he hits her.... bcuz if he hits you hows to say that he wont her the baby..you can do better then that...i dont even know you and i dont have to and i know you can do better then him....no women deserves that
2006-08-23 07:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Girl 24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the adoption center and when you give birth to ur baby, put it up for adoption but keep in touch with the adopters.
and for your bf, call the police for abuse.
2006-08-25 14:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by Holly♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him- hes not gonna stop abusing you and later on what would you do if he abused your child? would you want your kid growing up watching that?
2006-08-23 06:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by missammerica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come live with me
2006-08-23 06:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋