2006-08-23 06:49:14 · 11 answers · asked by Amy W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes.... hard as it may seem, in time it is possible to forgive.... if you want to.... if you truly want this person in your life, you are willing to overcome what ever has happened.... you may not trust them as you once did... but you can grow to TRY and trust them again =)
Best of Luck
2006-08-23 06:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ goddessofraine ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so .It takes a long time to really build trust and finding out that someone has been keeping something big from you is a huge betrayal of that trust. It's hard enough to just get over their stupid mistakes, but blatant dishonesty! I could never believe or trust that person again.
2006-08-23 07:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dala C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the lie was that big, then I don't think the trust level will ever be what it was, but you should try trust again. I really think it depends on what the lie was about.
2006-08-23 06:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by kdeegan2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To forgive and forget or just to forgive is a gift that not many people have. If a lie can be forgiven and not brought up or held against that person again then try to rebuild, if not move on to bigger and better things
2006-08-23 06:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by FANNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is always possible to regain someones trust. It takes lots of work on both parts. The one lied to has to be willing to try to trust the other and the liar has to be willing to prove they are truely sorry and wont lie again!!
2006-08-23 06:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by mommylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Building trust is going to be very difficult, but i would rather suggest you to focus on your capacity to deal with the lie in future, if you can handle the consequences of lie that was told to you, i am sure you will be able to deal with the trust over period of time, i know once a liar is always a liar, but its upon you to decided if you can handle the person and the behaviour of the person who lied to you. If you can suck it up and handle it, i am sure trust will be regained over period of time
2006-08-23 06:55:14 · answer #6 · answered by 1in6billion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No,
depends on the relationship as a whole, and just how strong it is. You know deep down in your heart what you want to do, stick with your decision, it's always right.
2006-08-23 06:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible but it takes a long time to trust someone again.
2006-08-23 06:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by scorpio11120 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS possible,...But it will take MAJOR work. And you have to make sure your in it...for the LONG haul, I did this,..and it actually took years. But My exhusband and I are BEST friends NOW,...because of it! Good Luck,....
Tammi~~~
2006-08-23 06:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Tammi S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the lie and how good of friends you were be for the lie happen !!
2006-08-23 06:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by Big R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋