I have a bestfriend and she is seeing this boy who i dont think is right 4 her and i think that he's sleeping around on her but i dont want 2 tell her wat i think cuz she'll just think im jealous r sumthin..i went 2 her boyfriends house with her one day and we were suppose 2 go 2 the movies but he cancelled, he told her he had 2 work (he does'nt have a job) then he rushed 2 get out the house and left her there with his mom...so then we walked around the corner and i looked 2 my left and there he was talkin 2 a couple of girls on there front porch but when he saw her he tried 2 walk away, he claims that they were just friends...Now u tell me wat should i do.
2006-08-23 06:36:36 · 22 answers · asked by Mercadese C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
4 ONE IF SHE CAN'T TAKE YOUR WORD,THEN FU-K HER. IF MY FRIEND TELLS ME SOMTHING BAD ABOUT MY MAN I WOULD TRY TO FIND OUT THE TRUTH! i WOULDNT TELL MY FREIND THAT SHE WAS JEALOUS I 'D ASK MY FREIND TO HELP ME CATCH HIS A** RED HANDED! THEN LEAVE HIS A**......
2006-08-23 06:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by ladyindia2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really her friend you will just let her know what you think and you are really friends then she shouldnt think that you are jealous or something like that. If she doesnt listen then stay out of it. you've already warned her and maybe she just has to go through that pain so she can learn from it.
2006-08-23 13:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by La fresa04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She probably knows what he is up to and just doesn't want to face up to it. Be patient and as long as he isn't physically harming her let her leave him on her own time. Right now you should just be a friend and listen to her without judging. If she knows you don't like him she probably won't tell you things that will make you like him even less. Be supportive.
2006-08-23 13:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by kareiokequeen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you think. if she does get mad, don't worry about it she will get over it and most likely take the advice anyway. she'll ask him about it or he'll probably get caught in the act. either way she won't be mad for long. but try to get some hard evidence or something first. make sure you know what ur talking about before u say anything. ok?
2006-08-23 13:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by troublemaker_4_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really your friend tell her what you think. If she hates you after, so be it. It just means that she wasn't your friend. The boy has to face what he is doing. Why let him get away with something that will hurt your friend.
2006-08-23 13:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to prove this to her first before u say anything but when u do tell her then let her know that u are NOT jealous, just trying to help becasue u care.if he is cheating or whatever then she will find out eventually and she will prob end up thanking u.
good luck!
2006-08-23 13:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by *JJtrue♥* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let your friend make her own decisions... Maybe she knows that he is a liar and and a cheater and she wants to be with him. Learn from her mistakes and be smart about the guys you date. Good Luck!
2006-08-23 13:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep saying that you think he sleeping around. Until you know you should mind your business. If he's not treating her well she'll have to decide what she's willing to put up with.
2006-08-23 13:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people have to learn things the hard way, as hard as it is for you, don't tell her. When she is ready to see him for what he is, she will. If she doesn't see him for who he is, then she is just not ready for anything. Just be there for her as a friend, support her when she does break it off with him.
2006-08-23 13:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you think. You can't convince her of anything. She will have to realize who and what he is on her own. Just tell her as a friend your concerns and let nature take it's course.
2006-08-23 13:40:16 · answer #10 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get proof of your claims (because she will say that you are just jealous) and then confront her with your evidence and what else you think is going on.
If you get no evidence, you need to stay out of her business and be there for the tears that will eventually come when you say "i told you so"
2006-08-23 13:39:16 · answer #11 · answered by psychstudent 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋