well i like my sister's friend but he's 17 and im younger than that. and yesyerday night we were talking and the subject of sex came to mind. and he said if i wanted to loose my virginity it would be safer to do it it with him. but, i didn't know he liked me to until he told me like 5 min later. so what should i do have sex wit him or no???
2006-08-23 06:33:14 · 17 answers · asked by Jazmine R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He didn't tell you he liked you.
He said "Let me steal something very valuable to you which has no value to me".
2006-08-23 06:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you should "not" have sex with him. Having sex is for procreation and for married people. Liking a percon doesn't mean you should have or even should think of having sex with that person. And, you didn't say how much younger than 17 you are. If you have sex with him you might get pregnant, and then the rest of your life would be ruined, and you'll get yourself a name and people will not want to be around you.
2006-08-23 13:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, well if you believe him when he says it'll be safer to do it with him, I've got a little land in Florida that's for sale at a very reasonable price. It only gets wet once in a while and you can handle that too. What other lines of B S does he have?
2006-08-23 13:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can if you want to, but I think the guy is just trying to get into your pants. If he was really interested in you he should ask you out. That way you could try to build a relationship before you sleep with him. Don't make the mistake of confusing sex with love.
2006-08-23 13:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
as a man i would recommend you not to do it
all he wants is that, he wants to be the first one in your life
so he could go and brag about it to his friend.
besides you are to young to have sex. you have all your life to think about it. your first priority should be school to be somebody
and not to grow depending on some one else.
you don't have to have relationship at you age. don't copy other girls. get involve in a church ask God for guidance.
God bless you.
2006-08-23 13:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by g-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think you should plan on these things, if it happens it happens, just make sure you know baout the consequences of what your thinking about...(ie) pregancy, stds...regret..choose what you like, but i think it really depends on how old you are?...think about it in probably less than a year he wil be 18 and you'd still be a minor, so do you really want to start somehting now...if it were up to me, i'd say that you should wait for it, form someone who's really specail and you love more htan anything,not someone your sister brought home....if you've decided everyhting and ur up for it however, then go for it....but to me its just not worth it....Good Luck!
2006-08-23 13:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by fuzzy19 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, he is just full of Bull, he is not even asking you for a date and he wants to have sex. Your just there that is all
2006-08-23 13:35:31 · answer #7 · answered by Eeyore 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How many times are you going to post this question and STILL not believe that he's just trying to GET SOME.
YOU ARE PRETTY DING DARN STUPID!
Just do it and stop asking us!
2006-08-23 13:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no no no
don't let him use you like that save you virginity till your ready not for the first guy who looks your way
2006-08-23 13:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by klynnd1981 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
definitely no. sis he is 17 and you r younger than that, think about it dont make stupid mistakes.
2006-08-23 13:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by i luv the word awsome 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋