no one trusts me whenever i say something.
they trust me to babysit and that stuff, but NOT WHEN I TELL THEM ANYTHING!!!
i've tried saying "i told you so"
any ideas?
thing is, I ALWAYS TURN OUT RIGHT WHENEVER THEY DON'T TRUST ME. and i don't lie. duh.
2006-08-23 06:31:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Trust is something that must be earned. I've lied a lot in my day and I know that it's hard to believe someone after you've lied to them. Think back to the boy who cried wolf. I'm not sure if you've lied or have the persona of a liar...all I can tell you is to tell the truth, continue to tell the truth and eventually people will then realize that you've been honest the entire time.
2006-08-23 06:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by ¤Forever¤ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is something that is earned! It is earned by how you carry yourself and how you live your life! If you lie even "once" you loose it, and it takes time to gain it back. If you have a habit of lying, no one will believe you even when you are telling the truth and are right! Always tell the TRUTH!!! Don't be pushy, that might be taken as a sign of insecurity and doubt.
2006-08-23 13:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by SAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, this is a hard one. I would talk to them. Confront them and ask them why they don't trust you. And try not to lie. Don't rub it in their faces that you weren't lying. Just go on with life. You'll eventually gain their trust.
2006-08-23 13:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well gee maybe they just wanna trust u theres not alot u can do bout that ... but when they dont believe u and then go ask sumone for the truth and they tell them the same thing they will just feel stupid ....
so take advantage
2006-08-23 13:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by statefrogy_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people want to make their own mistakes.If it is something you really feel strongly about try a softer approach.
2006-08-23 13:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good friend,listen to people and dont gossip,be extremely nice.
2006-08-23 13:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Myaloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study self-esteem
2006-08-23 13:33:45 · answer #7 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋