why do they do this?

Question

recently i've been going through some hardships!! first off some acquaintance was spreading rumours about me saying i was getting fat, which means i must be pregnant! she even went as far as telling my godmother that i was expecting.... actually, i found out about this through my godmother who was clearly upset by her words... yesterday, she came and confronted me on the street saying she was joking and that my grandmother blew the whole thing out of context.. liar!! all the while she kept calling me fat.. i'm 5"4 and weigh 140 pounds and i don't think i'm fat.. my boyfriend doesn't think i'm fat.. so why does she keep poking at me with these rumours? also, my boss has been making sexual remarks in the past, which i didn't like he's 69 and i (26). whenever guys talk to me he interrupts the conversation and acts weird. he asked me for the office key yesterday and told me to come back next wednesday cuz he accused me of missing fax money which i did not take!! i'm so sad what should i d

Answer 1

quit ur job and get a better job.and may b it would be better if u tell ur acquaintance what u think of her

Answer 2

Ignore your so-called-friend. She needs a life and is probably concerned that she's pregnant or fat and is trying to push her mentality on you. Just blow it off your shoulders and ignore her next time she comes near you. As for your family, just tell them that this girl is just a nutcase. They will understand, as family typically has experiences with nutcases. :)

And about your boss... If he'd like to have charges pressed against him for sexual harassment, tell him to keep it up. And if he crosses the line once more, call someone for legal advice on the sexual harassment that is ruining your self-esteem.

Answer 3

let him know that ur gonna file sexual harrassment charges against his old a s s if he keeps it up.. of course record the things that he's been saying and doing so u'll have proof..

and everyone else tell them off and tell them don't worry about u, tell them to worry about themselves...