Ok so the deal is my father met this women on an online dating website and they have been talking. I have never met her or anything & she has 2 daughters. Well he has been saying strange things to me like we are going to make this room her daughters room and that my dog is going to get a new playmate b/c they have a dog. Ok keep in mind noone in my family has met these people. I got suspecious so I was listening in on his convo and she asked how long it would take for them to get married. He said they could do it in 5 min and she liked that idea. She also asked him if they could put there bank accounts together and he AGREED! I know he has not known this women for more than 2 months and they are going to elope and get married WTF! He dated another women for 9 years and did not marry her! I dont understand. How can you marry someone move her in and not even introduce her to the family first. I think that she may be a con-artist. Please tell me what you would do in a situation like that!
2006-08-23 06:11:18 · 8 answers · asked by Lucid_dreams 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
tell your father how you feel about this whole situation first. Make him understand your feelings. Request him to introduce her to the family first before he makes and argees to anything else concerning that woman. Maybe he is in love with this woman, and maybe the lady who he was with 9 years wasnt the one for him. As only his heart can tell what is right and wrong. Maybe you should guide him to whats right. Just be carefully, not to hurt anyones feelings. And she might be a con artist who knows but the most important thing is everyone is happy. Remember ask your dad why is he doing all this for her? understand him and try to make him understand you. take care. Hopefully everything works out. Good luck
trisha
2006-08-23 06:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds pretty suspicious. The account thing really rings bells, especially if it was her idea. Thats really bad and sounds like a con-artist.
Your biggest problem is that your Dad is a guy and is probably thinking with the little head and not the big one. You've got to get his attention, gently, and have him step back and look at this situation. Get him to see he may not know much about this person. And why so quickly? Lets ease into this alittle.
This doesn't sound good to me.
2006-08-23 06:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, your question is in the wrong category. Second, I would just sit down with him and bang it into his head that this is wrong. Ask him if this was you getting married to some guy you knew for only 2 months would he be okay with that. Third, tell some of your family members (Grandma, Grandpa, Aunts, Uncles, etc.) who can help you with your dad. Good luck!
2006-08-23 06:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by Precious 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would advise your father to at least not combine the banks accounts. The fact that she even asked is seriously sounding the alarms. Although it is your father's life, so he can do what he wants, but you should share your feelings with him anyway. Tell him how worried you are and how you feel about him rushing into things like that and that you're concerned about what this woman is up to.
2006-08-23 06:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ell 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why not talk to your dad about what you over heard and tell him he needs to seriously think about what he is doing. Let him know that you want to see him happy but you don't want him to lose everything he has worked so hard to get. Ask him to talk to the other woman about a prenup and see what her reaction is. Maybe she thinks she has roped a man with money that is willing to take her and her kids in and when things don't work out she can take him for everything. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-23 06:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds a lil shady to me. Talk to your dad and let him know how you feel about the whole thing. Ask him to wait to merry her, so you can get to know her first. If he really loves and wants you to be happy also, he will do this for you. Just dont ask him to give her up untill you know this person.
2006-08-23 06:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i might want to leave the room in my opinion yet you've a tremendous decision of sticking a pillow over your head, muttering lower than your breath so that they aspect your loopy and may want to close up (good day it worked for me), sticking on the radio, headphones or earplugs. the alternative is yours,
2016-11-27 00:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enlist help from a person that your dad trusts. preferably his peer (siblings, cousins etc).
ask him or her to find out the situation from your dad.
2006-08-23 06:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by ash 7 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋