What happened was that i already wanted to move, but we can't right now and i am started middle school and now everyone is talking about me behind my back, and i don't know what to do. And now i know i don't belong here......
2006-08-23 05:56:42 · 17 answers · asked by squigitmyster9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
U turn directly 2 the person/people and ask. If the reason is a legitimate 1, than u can handle it accordingly (an apology, etc), however if it's just BS their talk'n, then 4get THEM u don't need them!!! There is someone at your school that really wants to be you friend. (trust me) Hook-up with them n Enjoy ur life!!!!!! ;-)
2006-08-23 06:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Di 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you feel. But one of my best friends knows how you feel. She dated his guy that doesn't take no for an answer. But she told him no and left him for good. But the next day at school it was all over the school that she was all over him and would do anything that walked. It really hurt her to have people talking about her. But she had me and a few other friends to help remind her that it wasn't true. And that even though it hurt she need to be better then what was said about her. I told her that if she lets them know what they are saying about her gets to her then they will keep talking because they like to see what she will do. But if she goes into school with her head held high and doesn't let them know what they are saying bugs her they will sooner are later stop because it is not fun for them anymore. So i know it is hard but go to school hold your head up and try not to let the stuff they say bug you. Go to school and be yourself and don't let what other people think make you have a horrible day.
2006-08-23 13:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you "did something" IF people hate you. Probably, you are unrealistically insecure, always thinking about yourself and always making comparisons with others. That is so adolescent. Remember, adolescent teens (13-18) don't know much of anything about life. They are all competing for attention so they can feel "popular." Girls give it up to feel popular. They drink, do drugs and wear obscene clothes demonstrating poor taste to feel popular. They defy their parents, teachers, relatives and "good" friends who tell them in so many words that they are "being silly." They cause all this pain because they think that being popular and liked has some value. It doesn't. You are not liked because you do what these jerks tell you to do. They are laughing behind your back because you gave them the ammunition: You sold out. Next time you sell out, get some cash up front so that you can have some comfort money when they dump you.
2006-08-23 13:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you have probably heard this before , hell my parents used to say it to me. You aren't there for your friends or enemies , you are there to get an education . If they are interfering with your ability to do so , tell them to back off. If they don't report them for harassment , because you have a right to an education. You have probably heard this before too , but as soon as you get out of school , you probably won't ever see most of those people EVER again . I hardly EVER run into people I went to school with. Occasionally I do , If I liked them I talk to them but if I didn't I ignore them. I won't tell you that things like that don't happen in the working world , but they do , some people NEVER grow up. Best thing you can do is assert yourself, don't threaten them or cower and hand them over your lunch money . Just flat tell them to knock it off.
2006-08-23 13:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, it's tough being a kid. and in middle school and high school there is lot of cliqes and mean people. im sure you will make new friends. when you are older, like me, you look back at this and laugh because you will realize how stupid these people
are. I remember being in the 6th grade and had alotta friends
but as soon as 7th grade rolled around, they all dumped me to be in a more popular group. But know what? who cares. i had plenty of friends in highschool and the 8th grade was the most fun i ever had in school. things will change i promise.
2006-08-23 13:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't worry about what the other people think, they don't even know u. ur true friends will stick by u always and those r the only people to worry about at school. don't let people make u feel uncomfortable, if they know u can stand up for urself and don't care what they say, it will stop eventually. it will take time but just be patient.
good luck!
2006-08-23 13:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by *JJtrue♥* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, f**k 'em if they can't take a joke. You know you're a good person, right? Let 'em figure it out for themselves.
Besides, And I don't mean to offend, I doubt you are important enough for EVERYONE to be talking about you.
Hang in there.
2006-08-23 12:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. October 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel ,school was a misery for me .people can be so cruel and heartless, but ill say this I'm alot older and i hope wiser now,and i wished i knew then what i know now.i would be kicking as$ and taking names. in times like this choose your friends very ,very carefully,and dont take $hit off nobody .who cares what people say about you, you know what the truth is, so do let it bother you dont let them see it bothers you . be your own person and dont let it get you down,it will blow over . keep your chin up,and i hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-23 13:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Scarlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me when I was a kid, and now I'm very popular as an adult. Concentrate on your schoolwork, I promise you things are going to get amazingly better!
2006-08-23 12:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear...it's gonna be like that everywhere you go
People are heartless and cold
But don't worry...
The good thing about the human body is that it adapts to pain
But you do belong somewhere...everyone does
2006-08-23 12:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by Hex W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋