i get married in 2002.in the beginning my wife is so sexy.but now her sex is no more.when i **** her then her sex dead up to one week..my age is 39yrs.what can i do for improving her sex.can i show her sexy pic or moviese,or apply other methods.pls expaine it.
2006-08-23 05:49:43 · 36 answers · asked by adbeer z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to go back to the basics - ask her out on a date - something she likes to do.
Call her the next day to talk about the date.
Send her some flowers at work.
Cook dinner
Do the dishes if she cooked dinner
Clean your house with her.
Get her out of the house on your days off - small day trips.
slip love notes into her lunch or pockets of her clothes so she can find them during the day that she is apart from you.
Pics and movies would be for you - do that later - that is something you need to talk to her about.
Romance her - talk to her - listen to her - once you get on track with this, the sex will come back.
2006-08-23 09:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is considerably younger than you then she is tired of the same old thing and of you and she is looking elsewhere for someone younger. Or she has found him. You sound naieve, like everything is as it appears and that people mean what they say. Think about this: If you are married and you have had a good relationship in past you should be able to ask her what the problem is. I know, you have, and she says, "Nothing" or "I don't knbow." The problem is, therefore, that you have no communication as a couple and this is the end result. Too late. Anyone who has to ask strangers for advice about intimate marital or boyfriend-girlfriend questions is by definition too naieve, uneducated or simple minded to benefit from suggestions. Hope you don't have any kids from this relationship.
2006-08-23 05:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her.Communication es a very important tool in the relationships.Yeah,you can do whatever you need, to improve your sex's life with her.But remember talk with her,ask how sex can be better for both (the couple).For sure she has her own points of view about the subject.Good luck.If she feel that you blame her,the relationship can be over.Be very careful and very kind,gentleman and polite and with a lot of love.Good luck .
2006-08-23 08:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs more then the sex and movies all that is good but she may need time a dinner a then a walk in the park or on the beach and see the sun setting a little dancing. you heard of the old saying wine them diniam 69 them add more to it just for here and not so much about you and what you like or dont just do it for her and you will see a cangen in her
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2006-08-23 05:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may have many reasons .1- she has a problem with u that she told u or showed u by her treats but u didn't pay attention to her.
so she is upset but don't tell u any more,so think about it .if there is ,try to find it .2-she doesn't love u any more beacause u are boring for her, u should find out what kind of men she like.3-may be u had so many sex with her so sex is not interesting for her az before.so try to impassion her by foreplay .may be u don't foreplay as good as u should .
try more
hope be successful
2006-08-23 06:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sweetening the pot more often, do littl eromantic caring things that prove to her how you feel and always will feel towards her...write love notes, take her out to dinner, out of no where grab her and kiss her passionatly, and if you want watch a dirty movie together or play a sex game...Once she realizes that you love her and still find her irresistable I assure you she will want to make love more often...Good Luck and relax maybe its justa hormonal phase in her life, don't worry she will get over this
2006-08-23 05:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to talk to her and let her know what you are feeling and thinking about this issue. Always keep the communication lines open for everything...so while your talking, find out what turns her on...just ask her, what you can do to make her feel sexier. Then have at it, do what she likes and she will respond accordingly. Try new and different things...candles and scents to set the mood...exotic fruits and foods to play with in foreplay....try a toy even!
2006-08-23 05:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie_6234 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two has been together for a long time it could be you, not trying to put down! but sometimes you guys do the same thing all the time and y'all gets ugly to woman. and we love to see you go out and stay gone for a long time. when you return have with you a young good looking guy, leave again don't come back. sex plays a big part.
2006-08-23 06:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny. all the above answers above from chicks blaming the man.
idiots. it happens in most marriages dude. woman do that. they get what they want, being married, and then they think their obligation to give up the pusssy is over. you need to explain to your wife. that you are not happy with the current situation. you need more sex. if it doesn't change it will hurt your relationship in the future. hopefully you don't have kids yet. if she doesn't respect your needs maybe it is time to move on.
get her into marriage counseling. she needs to stop being selfish.
it is part of the marriage. sex
2006-08-23 05:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her she is beautiful and make her feel loved throughout the day before you re going to have sex. A lot of women need to feel loved before they are in the mood. Then try pleasing her first, i.e. orally or manually, before you actually have sex.
Good luck!
2006-08-23 06:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋