he has been a back bone and also very affectionate giving out his love almost unconditionally.
2006-08-23 05:43:33 · 24 answers · asked by newdawn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You've got drama! Hey, if he makes you happy.... go for it!
2006-08-23 05:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would anyone knowingly date a married man? That he will leave his wife or you...? You say he is affectionately giving of his love "almost" unconditionally. You need to be more honest with yourself. When you date a married man all you get is a married man who cheats on his wife. If they do it to one...they have no qualms about doing it to all. I did not just make that up...I've seen it. You are with him because of low self esteem and need to work on that. His age is indicative of a "father." Was that missing too in your life too? I promise you he can do nothing for you but you can do a lot for yourself. Seek out counselling for this...your time will be better spent. He is not the answer. Good luck.
2006-08-23 06:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dude is married. You need to find someone else. Dont be a home wrecker.
And there is nothing wronge with seeing a person that is older than you, as long as they r not married!!
2006-08-25 06:49:43 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but he's still with his wife!! so wheres the back bone? and this thing you call love? he cant give what he doesn't have!! he's a pig! and a pain in the a ss to us older guys that really are single! he's playing you for sex! that doesn't take back-bone or love!that just takesa hard-on!
2006-08-23 05:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this if he really loves you would he make you share him with another woman and if hes not in love or happy with his wife would'nt he have left her by now this will turn out to a bad situation and if i was you i would get out while i can you will only end up getting hurt
2006-08-23 05:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by luvlifeshell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him and let him be married... You have to allow him to work out his marriage problems before he can be your man... his marriage may be over, but GOD honors marriage and you are limiting your time here on earth... This Man is wrong and he knows it... You have to be tried of being the other woman... I have dated a married man before and boy let me tell you it's not FUN... You have to let him know you deserve to be number one and if he is not willing to give it, you are no longer willing to play second...
2006-08-23 05:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of pain and heartache for you, his wife, and their children.
Unconditional love is a wonderful thing, too bad he is giving it to you instead of the woman he promised it to.
Stop this now, or one day the shoe will be on the other foot
2006-08-23 05:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Yote' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case only good thing can happen i dated and ell in love with my husband and he is 22 years older then me we have benn together 15 years ( married for 9 of them) and everything is great. Remember age is just a number.
2006-08-23 05:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by l_iwoman 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Marriages are ruined...
But I see no harm in you dating someone 23 years older than you
As long as he's not married
I like someone who is 13 years older than me so I understand
2006-08-23 05:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Hex W 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to know the answer to that question to....Becuase from my own experience the only thing that happens is a broken heart...alot of tears...alot of hurt...alot of anger and alot of wasted time in the end
2006-08-23 06:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Aunt Nawna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we'll whats gonna happen is that you will get hurt. He is married and really older. This is not what you want to hear, but move on for now!!!!
2006-08-23 05:46:24 · answer #11 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋