i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months , everything was all great before,but for the last couple weeks, he doesnt call me as much and has been acting funny with me. i love him ( i know its soon but we told eachother we loved eachtother after a month) but when he doesnt give me attention it makes me really sad and i dont want to feel like this anymore . it makes me feel like breaking things off now, even though i know it will hurt but i'm hurting now. i'm scared of regretting it , what should i do ?
2006-08-23 05:40:31 · 5 answers · asked by LISA M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
One of these days you take him to your room, or go over to his place, or walk at the park and talk to him. Tell him what you are noticing, what you feel about it, see what his response is. Most likely he will deny the truth, otherwise if he's a man of truth, he will tell you the truth, therefore be prepared for either or. Sometimes silence is the best way to tell a loved one, there's nothing more between the two of you, hurts less than when it is told straight out.
2006-08-23 05:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My motto in live is, there is nothing worth regretting. Everything we do we do so that we can move forward in life. I wouldn't break it off, not because of regrets but because I'd prefer to figure out if the drifting apart can be reversed.
But if I were to decide to end it, it will be because I want it to be over. No promises of beautiful moments and loving embraces would be able to sway me. You are the only one who can make your choice. When you make it, know that given a million tries at the same situation, you would have made the same choice. How could it have been the wrong one? Trust yourself with your life. Have faith in you feelings.
Best of luck to ya. Just remeber, no regrets, EVER!
2006-08-23 12:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regret sucks. i know. unfortunately, i really dont think that there is a way to go thru life and never have any regrets. try to figure out what is causing him to back away....there might be a reason that you can actually work through. talk about it with him. if you cannot resolve the issue, then you may need to let him go.
2006-08-23 12:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by grl_addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why kids shouldn't be in relationships, your too sensitive and not ready to do grown up things. True love never fails. You are alowing someone else to control whether you are happy. If you can't be happy with you how will anyone else be able to make you happy.
You have no idea what true love is...
2006-08-23 12:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel
2006-08-23 12:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋