Iv been with my guy for over 2 years now and hes the only guy ive been with but ive NEVER had an orgasm.. iv tried everything please help?
sex is ok sometimes and pretty good otehr times but i just dont if ya get me even after ages of foreplay?
2006-08-23 05:29:29 · 22 answers · asked by doasisaynowboi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
were very open he knows and it upsets him and we really do try, were very close
2006-08-23 05:53:45 · update #1
please buy some good book on sex and keep it by your bed.
2006-08-23 05:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to perform cunnilingus on you. Have him insert two fingers into your ya ya and make a come hither motion on the back of your G spot. At the same time he needs to really work over your clitoris with his tongue. This should make you orgasm. If not. . give me a call and I'll rock your world in every way. Good luck!
2006-08-23 12:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you put to much your mind into it it is never gonna happen. You have to stop trying to have an orgasm and just enjoy the sex.
Second, you should see a sexologist, or sex therapist. They can give you tips and strategies so you can achieve your orgasm.
2006-08-31 08:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by blackturmaline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have had this problem too... I was with my first for 7 years and nothing but when my second ex came around it happened he knew it was like a challenge for him ...but the only way I can have an orgasm is with the fingers his or mine try it yourself to see where your spot is then share that with him so you both can enjoy it GOOD LUCK
2006-08-29 12:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a appoitment at the doctor and talking to your partner about the problem would be a good idea and both of yous talking to the doctor about your sex problems
or maybe your guy need to be prescribed viargra
2006-08-23 12:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Shane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either need to find a new man or your going to have find out what gives you that orgasmic charge and then relate the method
2006-08-23 12:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try masturbating in front of eachother, u can even get a vibrator to help u along, then u can proceed to intercourse. Get off the computer and go masturbate on ur own. Learning to pleasure ur self can have a great impact on ur sexual relationship.
2006-08-23 12:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks this is responsibilty of ur guy to get u high always(not possible but mostally) cause female get late orgasm in the comparision of males. so male have to be more interactive in forplay n afterplay also... if this isn;t done by him how can u get orgasm. so plz refer him his responsibility n if u both guys don't know how to get high u can use KAMASUTRA(original only). it will helps u. best of luck
2006-08-23 12:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a vibrator. A lot of women are incapable of having an orgasm from intercourse alone.
2006-08-23 12:32:08 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stimulate your clit.You can buy a little thing called a silver built.It vibrates.Put it on you clit during sex.Or stimulate it with you fingers.Some women have to have stimulation of the clit.Sometimes intercourse just dint do it.
2006-08-23 12:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by faye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try toys!!! get a butterfly or a rabbit!!! has he ever gone down on you? maybe he's not doing it right? maybe u have a mental block? did ur parents teach u sex was dirty as a kid? these might be things u'd wanna look into.
2006-08-29 17:36:58 · answer #11 · answered by Vol_Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋