My husband is obessed with the model "Vida Guerra and Hoopz". He spends most of his time in the computer looking them up. He has over 100 pics of these models but its never enough for him. He saids I shouldnt let it bother me, that he's a man and their just models. But is it normal?
2006-08-23 05:02:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes completely - doesnt mean he doesnt love u - would your prefer if he hid this from you or was open and up front?? think that answers your question - u got nothing to worry about
2006-08-23 05:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Monster S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Thats True A lot Of Man Are Like That in Realtionships
2006-08-23 05:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Shane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is pretty normal. Just don't let it get farther and farther into perversion. Many guys just appreciate the naked woman, even if it does turn him on, it's usually ok. When he starts getting into more of the darker perversions though (bondage, young girls, etc.), is when you should step in. Some men are horrible at controlling their sexual urge, so it takes more and more to turn them on, but if he is just simply obsessed with a model, it's pretty normal, like when girls were obsessed with elvis or the beetles or johnny depp. Just watch it to be safe, but don't be over protective or it may anger him.
2006-08-23 05:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As normal as you having conversations with women. It is part of his instinctual drive that is reinforced by his peers. It is one of the behaviors about a man that doesn't change without damaging your relationship with him.
If you think you can deal with it, take an interrest in his porn collection. If he's willing to share them with you it could help you two bond as a couple.
If it bothers you too much tell him to just keep it out of your sight. It's your right not to be challenged by that stuff.
2006-08-23 05:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, although in his case he might be bordering on obsession. Men always look, whether they are in a relationship, married single, whatever. It is instinct and it means nothing, unless acted upon.
Tell him you don't mind that he looks but 100 pictures of the same person is a little too much.
2006-08-23 05:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by mrcatphish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men like to look at stuff like that. But he should not neglect you and your needs and as an adult you have the freedom to ask him to change any of his behaviors if they bother you. He also has the right to tell you it's no big deal and he's not going to stop. Sorry these things are never easy.
2006-08-23 05:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not normal and NO you should not put up with that! Can you imagine what it does to you? Don't you think he compares you to them? Don't you think that you probably feel less worthy because you are not one of them? He is your husband and he should do that with pictures of YOU not some women that he will never meet! Unacceptable.
2006-08-23 05:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Просто Я 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not? I like to look at naked men, so why be upset at my man looking? I say it is healthy and normal.
2006-08-23 05:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I never get tired of looking atha naked female body.
2006-08-23 05:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it's cool but if your love life starts to fail due to him spending time on the internet looking for these pics then it is time for counseling!!!
2006-08-23 05:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by f912guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋