I love kissing and touching during sex. It seems he only wants action. I tried to explain what I need but he doesn't seem to care much.
2006-08-23 04:57:29 · 14 answers · asked by sophie12780 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
nobody else said it yet so i will come 2 me i'll take care of u
2006-08-23 06:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by canibus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he doesn't care to learn -- and do -- what it is YOU need (and thus is only concerned about what HE wants) then, time to move on. I mean, if he were interested in what you wanted to tell him and if he were interested in trying to make sure that you were enjoying everything as much as he, then there might be some hope here..... but if you are trying to explain and he is uninterested, then close the gates (so to speak) and find someone new.
2006-08-23 05:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Brent--if he doesn't care about your needs, stop caring about his. Tell him NO and tell him why. And leave it at that. If he really loves you, he'll come around when he sees that you're serious. Because that you tell him it's not enough but give in to his needs anyway, all you're really doing is telling him you're not very serious about what you said and all he has to do is push a bit and he gets what he wants. A therapist might also be a good idea.
2006-08-23 05:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not taking your needs into consideration and is only focused on what pleases him then you may want to rethink your relationship. Someone like that is usually very selfish and this behavior will not only control your sex life but other aspects of your life as well.
2006-08-23 05:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by brandy82804 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not change another person, only yourself. Perhaps you should start saying NO. Or tell him you are not satisfied and take him to a sex therapist.
2006-08-23 05:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Brent 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to make him understand what you need. Keep talking to him. Tell him that you are not satisfied with things the way they are.
2006-08-23 05:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a lover that can take care of your need properly
2006-08-23 05:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't it be good if the marriage vows and agreement included such things.
2006-08-23 05:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a sex toy (yes, they do make them for men) and see what he says.
2006-08-23 05:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by hunterlm84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who is sexually compatible..just don't tell him! Easier than all this fuss and todo about this.
2006-08-23 05:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋