we try to help him yet he seems rather pissed every time we say something in trying to help him..now we want him to leave as he has caused my husband and I to have arguments, plus we want our house back, he as a caravan in our backyard but he still feels that he can come in our house when he wants also we cant have sex any where except in our room when I want to do it any where around the house but cant and this has caused stress in our sex life.... so please if anyone can help me i would be so gratefull thanks
2006-08-23 04:45:04 · 9 answers · asked by rhonalester15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give him a deadline and then give his ass the boot. If my momma did it to me then you can do it to this loser.
2006-08-23 04:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would ensure that he leaves,but first I would have a serious talk with him outlining that i need my house back 2 how it was b 4 he came there.Let him know that u luv having sex all over & he's stopping that,just be as plain & honest as possible.Then after u have spoken let him him KNOW u r TELLING him NOT asking him.Then finally give him an ultimatum.
I think that's d best way 2 do it because next thing u know u trying 2 b nice about it and he just not getting d picture and ur just blow ur fuse u'll speak out of anger & hurt his feeligs.God bless u all d best in ur sex life and ur decision.
2006-08-23 05:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by fayona s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his ass out! If he is such a good friend he would respect your wishes. Sounds like an Alcoholic. How can he afford booze and yet still lives in his van. I've been there and done that. Try and help someone and get no respect. Telling him to leave might just force him to look at his life and see what he wants out of it. Living in his van drinking everyday sucks. You may want to have sex but he wont get any living the way he is.
2006-08-23 04:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by kyle z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot do any thing except your husband of whom he is claim to be friend. what your husband should do. if you are having any relationship should breakup at once now for ever.
first do not help him in not getting drunk or say any thing to him.
just leave his friend ship, with a warning if he come drunk to him.
avoid him completely directly or indirectly not even a word or a gesture.
by this they are full chance of not coming to you and also will change his ha-bites
2006-08-23 05:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by mysker v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your hubby need to stand together and tell this person that if he cannot respect you guys, your house and the simple rules for the house he needs to find another place to live. You and Your hubby need to be firm and not back down.
2006-08-23 04:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know how long hes been there but it sounds dreadful. Tell him to go within 48 hours and dont smile saying it. Good luck. Offer to take him to the shelter if necessary.
2006-08-23 04:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the problem of you and you husband everytime he will stay in your house so that he will ralize that he caused a big broplem to you and your husband..
2006-08-23 04:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by Purps.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even asking. Kick him out.
I don't understand how this is even an issue.
2006-08-23 04:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him out
2006-08-23 05:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋