f@cked upy friendship with a guy that i really love
i wrote him a note saying how much i love him and everything hes at work today so i dont know what he thinks
so what will do then
2006-08-23 04:36:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Good luck...I'm sure you didn't eff up. It may have made him nervous and he may need time to really think about what he wants. Also, if he's a good friend, he'll be honest with you about how he feels.
I have a best friend (male) who's now my boyfriend (3 months) so I say that you just hope for the best and let fate step in.
2006-08-23 04:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh DAMN. You work with him? Haven't you ever heard "don't get your honey where you get your money??" If you guys have a bad break-up, it'll be so weird between you two at work.
My advice is to go up to him during lunch or whenever, and ask him how he feels about it and to be brutally honest. Be sure to hope for the best possible response, but be prepared for the worst possible response.
2006-08-23 11:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that the note was your error? It wasn't, necessarily - depending on y'all's respective maturity levels, it's entirely possible for him to hear a confession like that, tell you he's not interested, and still want to maintain the friendship. It's happened to me before, and the guy is still one of my best friends. Of course, I am also able to continue respecting the fact that he wasn't interested, and I don't let it drive me nuts with thoughts of "ZOMG WY DUZn'T HE LUV ME?!?!!?!" Be careful of that thought pattern, 'cause that genuinely *could* ruin the friendship.
2006-08-23 11:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love notes to a friend are a little grade school. You should have told him face to face, and felt him out a little first.
2006-08-23 11:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worrie it usually turns out that he likes you too or may even love you. Good Luck!
2006-08-23 11:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
four words? don't worry about it
you'll be fine. he probably knows you feel like aloser for doing it, and if hes worth it, he'll understand. act likenothing happened. and i he brings it up, don't make a big deal about it. because remember, its not. its all happened before. likeyou always do, you'll make it through. good luck.
2006-08-23 11:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by sugar4sandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant really do anything yet but wait for him to respond and let you know how he feels...
2006-08-23 11:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by eboney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait for him to respond to you.
2006-08-23 11:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol ok
2006-08-23 11:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Yes No Maybe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alrighty. guess u will have to wait and see......................best of luck.......................
2006-08-23 11:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by ~K~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋