im a boy and i want to become a girl what do i do?

Question

5'10 and hoping to become a transsexual

Answer 1

I am a transgender woman, so I know what you are going through. I know how hard it is to acknowledge that you could be in the wrong body, understanding one’s inner feeling that somehow your body, mind and soul are not lined up.

If you feel like that, there is nothing to worry about, it does not mean that you have to jump right to the surgeon’s office and get a sex change. First things first and it looks that it is the perfect time to question your gender identity. It is very important to understand that questioning your gender identity is not wrong, and it won’t open any Pandora’s box. It will help you know and understand yourself, something that will be very gratifying at the end of the day.

I strongly suggest you to see a therapist, they will surely help you sort out by yourself what’s going on within you. As well, attending to a transgender support group is always of great help. There you can talk to people that feel like you and who are trying to make sense of their lives.

If you strongly feel that you are a woman inside, you should try to dress up at home, whatever makes you feel like the person you are inside, and see how comfortable you feel doing ordinary stuff with the outfit you feel is the right for you. To avoid a first-time excitement judgment, try to do it pretty often so that you can compare objectively between the new gender role and the old one.

Whatever the outcome of your soul search, keep in mind that you don’t have to do anything drastic or permanent. I know many girls that are just fine cross-dressing at home, and others that feel 100% happy just wearing panties underneath a suit at work. Sure, there is the option to make the necessary corrections with your body (transsexualism) but Being a M2F transsexual is not the goal after all; it is just the consequence of being a woman inside correcting the outside.

Answer 2

You wait until you are an adult and fully mature. You determine if that is even logical at that point. You have tons of professional counseling (that's required anyway). You consider EVERYTHING.
God did not make you male because he wanted you to decide to change things. He made you male because He had a plan for your life as a male. Changing your sex will NOT make you happier. It is running away from some issue you have NOT dealt with. (probably abuse)

Answer 3

You really need to get a life. God made you a male! That is who you are that is who you will always be! You will never, ever be a woman. It will never work!!!!! Get a life little boy!!! Be the man that God made you! If He wanted you to be a woman than you would have made a woman by birth. You are a male!

Answer 4

Find a good therapist, and support group to help you through the transition. Take you time adjusting.

Good Luck.

Answer 5

First I must ask you are you very DETERMINE to be come a girl. If yes, then it a quick and simple process,just go to the kitchen and cut it

Answer 6

ew... 1. your voice will still be the same which tells everyone u used 2 b a boy 2. thats GROSS stay with what you are... God gave you a gift and keep it. 3. Surgery is gonna be veryyyy painful

Answer 7

seek help immediatly, I hate guys who try to act like women. God made you a guy for a reason why are you going to change that you will never be a real female.

Answer 8

What the hell? Ya, know the funny thing is that you always see guys wanting to be girls, but were not as freaky as you and you never see as much girls wanting to be a guy????

Answer 9

Seek counseling to find out what is going on with you and your body!

Answer 10

Go to Thailand. Sex change. Chip chip. 1 tousand dollah.