Whats it like to be married?

Answer 1

It's the same as being single only you're life is alot more "Structured".

Answer 2

It's different things at different times.
I've been very lucky with mine, we're married a long time and granted, we had and still have our moments, but over-all I wish I could set the clock back just to do it all over again.
Especially the sex part, that's alway's been great fun and I'd love tp be able to do that all over again. Only a lot more often.
A lot more
Yeah, I would definitely do some things differently. Almost all to do with simply paying more attention to my wife and kids.
And a definite, most important change would be to insure my wife's and my intimacy so easily overlooked, actually not overlooked, in hind site, we now realize we were both well aware but following the others lead, it's so easy to lose each others friendship while raising children.
Marriage and children are a give and take, and if can manage to give more of yourself than you take, it does, even at the oddest of times, be rewarding.
I can't imagine living alone or why would anyone want too?
But that's me and, thankfully, every bodies different.
Again, what you put in is what you'll get out of it.
Hope I helped at least a little.

Answer 3

I think its wonderful and the best thing I have ever done in my life too, been married for 22 years now, had a lot of ruff times and even more great times, but you get through them all with loving and supporting each other, you have to be prepared for a lot of give and take, never criticise each others faults, always be there to hold and listen to your partner, tell them as many times as you want or can each day that you love them and never,ever go to bed on an argument and if you must then no matter who's fault it is just say sorry, never let the sun go down on your rows.

Answer 4

It is kind of weird! You think things will change but they don't! I would compare it to someone who has been dating for 2-3 years but now its on paper! The wedding is fun but could be very stress full trying to get everything just right!

I have been married a year and we are about to try for a family! Marriage is nice but just remember if your having problems not being married then you will have problems while married. Marriage is not a cure for relationship issues.

Answer 5

Obviously this doesn't apply to all marriages but you could liken it to getting into a really comfortable bed. The luxury is fascinating and you snuggle in. You're in heaven. Sadly it slowly dawns on you that it is just too comfortable and comfort turns to discomfort. From sleeping soundly your suddenly tossing and turning, then you progress to not being able to sleep at all. Your heaven has become a hell and the memory of that initial comfort fades quickly. As I say please don't think all marriages are like this I just couldn't think of an analogy which could describe my views. Having said that I would probably marry tomorrow if it was the right person. But, I've obviously said that before.

Answer 6

I LOVE being married. I guess I am quite old fashioned and I really enjoy playing the whole wife part, cooking for my hubby, cleaning before he comes home. I don't care if that's sexist, I love my husband and want to look after him. He is a great provider, sensible with cash and while I cook all the main meals, he does the coffee, tea, hot chocolate, breakfast and popcorn inbetween meals!

Answer 7

It's fun always having a loving companion( unless of course you pick the wrong person and not your soulmate. You can always ***** and complain about the rest of the world to that someone to get it out of your system. You can just be happy being in the same abode and ofcourse doing stuff together. Before kids, it's a fun long date, after kids it's a process you share with lots of ups and downs. I would hate to be out in the dating world. It's so horrible to fear meeting crazies and worry about diseases and stuff. Good luck finding the right person.

Answer 8

There are hard times of course..but it's the greatest feeling in the world to come home from a long day of work and have your spouse there to meet you and tell you they love you.

I wouldn't have it any other way then to be married to the love of my life :)

I hope i helped to answer your question a bit.

Answer 9

Designing a relationship is a personal matter. There was a story told of a long-time relationship celebrating 50 years of marriage and their friends and family asked their secret. Their reply....we decided in the beginning their was no I or me to be used. It was always to be we. So when things happened (like when hubby lost his job) it was a we situation to handle. It worked for them...and maybe they have something there!

Answer 10

it is like enjoying ur favortie food over and over again......at first you just cant belive you have it to urself and then u kinda reach a saturation level and u hate it a bit but after u go away trying new food you come to realise why u like ur favorite food so much. might not be an apt similie but my marraige has been this rollercoster ride by gowwdd. we fall in love all over again..... till we cant love no more and then we have a hating phase where we cant decide on any thing and cant stand each other but the moment we go away we miss each other so much ... its the same everytime.....

Answer 11

if you've married the right person like me then imagine waking up in the morning every morning feeling content with everything.

if you're one of the 50% of poeple that settle for someone that isnt the right one then you'll have a shite life and probably get divorced