My husband always says that he loves me and everything and that he only cares about me and when were at home hes like that but when we go out to parties and theres girls there he always seems to be really friendly and flirting and he just acts totally different when were at home then at a party when theres girls there. so what does that mean?
2006-08-23 04:14:50 · 25 answers · asked by blacktec 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Congratulations.
You married and insecure jacka$$......
2006-08-23 04:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means nothing! Think back to when you and he met did he not act in the same manner? He is just trying to be out going and wants people to like him not meaning just the girls. You could talk to him about this and your feelings it may or may not help. You deffinitly need to tell him you don't like it when he's flirting with other women though, maybe he is a bit more friendly when he's had a few drinks, who isn't? Ask him if it is alright if you flirt with other men. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you or that he's looking for something else but I could see how it could lead to feelings of this and he must know about it. He is going home with you and the only one he's waking up to in the mornings is you right? He can look but not too much and he'd better know you're mood when it is o.k. for him to look and he'd better not touch right!
2006-08-23 11:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with the answerer who said he is trying to prove himself. Married guys sometimes feel like they've lost their edge with women so they flirt to make it look like they've still got it. It's not a big deal. Try not to let it bother you - most flirty comments are just comments and don't go any further then that. If he's taking phone numbers, then there's a problem. Harmless flirting - we all do it. Sometimes it just makes an event easier or a day fly by.
2006-08-23 11:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means that he loves you, but he is the kind of man that loves flirting (most men do).
I wouldn't tolerate that either. But the only thing you can do is talk to him and ask him not to behave like that. Never keep inside what worries you, cz this way you are never going to sort things out. speak up whatever irritates you. in this way you respect yourself and get what you want.
If he loves you enough he will behave decently next time and you'll be happy.
Good luck.
2006-08-23 11:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's a flirt, that's all - give him a taste of his own medicine and next time your out - flirt away - its actually quite fun, especially when you see how mad he'll get. have fun - enjoy watching his reaction - and don't worry about him flirting - that's probably the way he's always been, once a flirter, always a flirter or charmer or whatever you want to call people like that. it goes both ways, watch next time your out, there are definately flirts out there they're easy to spot
2006-08-23 11:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to sleep with them.And if he says he doesn't, than hes not telling you the truth. The next time you go to a party, flirt with the guys and show him how it feels. Or you could have a looooooong talk with him about the situation.
2006-08-23 11:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That strange.. if he told you at home but won't show anyone how much he loves you??? wow, I always told my wife how much I love her and kiss her all the time and hugs her and hold her and everyone like wow, you really loves her and even if i have alot female friends and they do understand and respect that and I have no plm at all.
For your husband to act 2 personilty that strange smiling. Tell him why you act different at home and at party with girls???
See what he had to say???
2006-08-23 11:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could mean you're married to a real jacka** or it could mean that he's a born flirt and needs attention from ALL women to feel good about himself, and it has nothing to do with you... The only way you're going to find out is if you ask him.. and if it bothers you, ask him to either stop or be more aware of how his overly friendlieness is upsetting you.
2006-08-23 11:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be impossible to give a concrete answer as to why he does it, but if he is giving you constant reassurance at home he more than likely really means it. If I were you I wouldn't let another day go by wondering, just call him out on it, see what explantion he has.
2006-08-23 11:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is immature and does not respect you he needs to grow up and realise in public for other women to respect you he has to respect you first.he still wants to act single when he is married .maybe you should also start flirting with the guys at parties so he can have a taste of his own medicine and see if he likes it
2006-08-23 11:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by hieandbye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason he may be doing this is because first of all he is a man and we girls know how mans like to be (macho) but the very own reason may be that he wants to prove to himself and maybe his mates that he can still atracts other girls even if he's married.
2006-08-23 11:29:47 · answer #11 · answered by monica c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋