My friend Jacob has been my friend ever since I can remember a few years back he said he liked me but back then I didnt really like him I only liked him as a friend, but I said I liked him anyways to see how it would play out. Well the relationship ended because of the usual reason between friends. When one isnt in love with the other they start to act weird well yah. Anyways so now a long time from then I like him now... We arent really what you call friends now but Im friends with his older sister. Ive been wanting to tell him I like him and all but I just cant spit it out and say it and Im not sure what to tell him Ive been wanting to tell him for so long Im afriad that he doesnt feel the same way now... please help Im in a jam here.
2006-08-23 04:04:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that is so true and it happens to all when someone likes you and you dont...then when you like them...you think theyve gone off you....if you express your true feelings im sure jacob wont reject you...but if he does atleast it was worth a try and you took off that big weight youv bin carrying round you for years...best thing to do..is just say it straight forward that youve started to like him and that...im sure itll work...good luck..hope this has helped..
2006-08-23 04:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by SenSored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, unfortunateally... It sounds like you kind hurt him with this one. I'd say that if you are friends with his sister that the easiest way to find out if he still likes you is ask her, for she would be the best one to ask to get the inside information.
If nothing else, just aske him... And you will probably have a lot of apologizing to do for this one... I know it sounds wong... But it seems that you two were on different pages... He knew what he wanted and what would be good for the both of you and you were not there yet.... He's probably hurt even if the breakup went well, and if it didn't... There may be little chance for you two to get back together...
Then again, he may just not be talking to you because he still loves you and does want to get back together...
2006-08-23 04:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down in a nice quiet place and tell him how you feel but make sure that he understands that he is not obligated inreflecting those feelings back towards you. He should also be honest about his feelings, make sure that he does not feel that he is being jammed into a decision that he will later on regret. So honesty is the key and not being afraid of rejection as this will only make you stronger for the next one. Best of luck amigo
2006-08-23 04:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's too late now, becaue you probably was the one who broke his heart back then by going into a relationship pretending you liked him. If he's the revenge type of person, and if he doesn't like you that way now, he might pretend to like you just so he can break your heart, so I think you should look somewhere else, instead of getting your heart broken, but hey if it works out with him it's all good.
2006-08-23 04:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eaz ur way in and start bein friends again ans show him what a great girl u are then tell him u like him or tell his sister and she will "accidently" say some thing out loud while you guys are on the phone and ya no what he was in the room so he herd it. get her to say something like "omg u so do not like my brother come on hes my brother." i dod in for my x bf and my brother and it worked they arnt dating now cause shes a trap but i dont think u are so good luck
2006-08-23 04:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by rooney8dabom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some how you'll have to get enough nerve to ask him. But it's best if you do, rather than someone else. Good Luck!
2006-08-23 04:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got yourself into this mess As far as I'm concerned, you can get yourself out. That's all I have to say about it.
2006-08-23 04:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask his sister to find out casually what he thinks/feels about you and go from there.
2006-08-23 04:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over and take him in a room alone and if u dont no wut to say give him a kiss or get nude JOKING
2006-08-23 04:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by sly_ninetytwo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im confused !!!!
2006-08-23 04:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋