was he expecting the call ?

Question

my husband is away on bussiness, while we were talking on the phone (cell) he had a call come into the room, instead of saying hold on he said i'll call you back later , should i be worried ?

Answer 1

Are you really asking this???. Jealous much

Answer 2

If I have a solid relationship, it wouldn't worry me, but I would appreciate a little more info before he rang off. Men are strange creatures on the phone. They usually won't say "I love you," and I'm talking about the WIFE (!) if they think someone will hear. On one occasion, when I was with my old boyfriend,he left the room after he picked up the phone. Dig THAT!! I was about to leave,anyway. I said nothing in regard to the call. When I got back, he immediately said,"do you still love me? I still love you. That was a call from my old girlfriend. Her son may have a serious health condition." We talked about it. I told him that I understand why she would call him. After all, they had been together for about 5 years and we had JUST gotten together. He knew her son...the woman was distraught...understandable. What I DIDN'T understand was the way he left the room .Over the next 4 years he did things like this alot. Once, he got some email. I said, Oh! Let's read it." (THe puter was still a mystery to me at that point.) He refused. I got very upset. When he FINALLY showed it to me, once again it was from her. Her dog had died and she was upset. I felt very sorry for her and I understood her need to connect. Once again, I could NOT understand why he had to be secreative. Him: "See how mad you are?THAT's why I didn't show you." ONCE AGAIN, I had to tell him that it was his need for secrets that I was angry about. I'm sorry to have gone on and on.
Could your husband have merely been in a hurry? Could he have been too abrupt with you, over a simple(it's NEVER simple w/them) BUSINESS thing? Tell him that in the future, you would appreciate not being hung up on so abruptly. It's too bad,rather CRAZY,that a grown man needs being told these things. You might even want him to know that when he does that, you suspect that it is a woman on the other line? You are the only one who can judge what the best way is...I just hate seeing you suffer. Best of luck,friend.
By the way...once I got a call while in another room from him. During the call, he strolled in ,while STILL eating food on his plate ,scoping out the situation. I told him, it's the best man from my wedding.(I am a widow.) I made sure he would feel relaxed. I INCLUDED him in the loop. I did not want him to feel worried.

Answer 3

Did you ask him when he called you back who it was that called on his phone? Is this the only thing that would have you worried or are there are things that have been happening? If this is all there is, you have nothing to worry about

Answer 4

I don't know that I would be worried based on what you just said. But the fact that you are asking means that you probably are worried. Maybe you should talk to him. I think you have other issues maybe that you aren't bringing up to have you concerned. Good luck! Hope it all works out!

Answer 5

Don't think too negatively. Perhaps, it was his colleague or boss at the door and it was gonna be a long discussion? And long distance calls are pretty expensive, so it's better to hang up first?

Answer 6

Not necessarily. He might have been waiting for a business call. If he hasnt been doing anything that makes you suspicious then i wouldnt worry about it at all.

Answer 7

I would say be worried. Unless it was important buisness that he really needed to attend to. Try not to jump to conclusions. Ask him first. And if he flies off the handle bar just try to explain to him that cheating happens and you just want to be sure.

Answer 8

Nope, it could be the hotel calling him. Or his coworkers may contact the the hotel whcih in turn will call his room of course.

Answer 9

Worried about what?

Get a grip. Grow up.

Answer 10

if you trust him you don't have to but if not call him back right away