Alright...so a while ago my ex-bf talked to me after a month. I was kinda happy co'z he was angry with me when I pancaked him. But after we broke up I gave him a sorry letter co'z I really felt guilty.
A while ago, he asked me what is the letter for and I told him it was just a sorry letter nothing more, which is the truth...During the conversation, he gave me a hint that he wanted to be on a relationship with me again...
I'm not really sure if I still like him....But I was really touched when he said that he's still madly in-love with me...I mean, he treats me like a princess. I dont think I deserve this kind of treatment and affection from him...should I consider going out with him again?
2006-08-23 02:58:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ex boyfriends are ex boyfriends for a reason.
Remember your reason, what's your resolution?
2006-08-23 03:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up w/ him, there was obviously a reason behind your decision. If you were to date him again, would that reason creep up again and cause you to break his heart yet again? You'll always find guys that are sweethearts and will treat you like princess, but you need to weed out those guys that you feel you cannot return the favor of their affection. The day will come that you will find the man you're meant to be w/, dating is just a way for you to determine what you like and don't like and move on if the relationship is doomed to fail. If you're not sure if you like him, then why would you bother starting a relationship again w/ him? It's a waste of his time as well as yours and it wouldn't be fair to him knowing that deep in your heart, he holds no true place. I say tell him thank you for the good times, but it's time for both of you to move on w/ your lives and search for those you're meant to be w/.
2006-08-23 03:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by gretchen372002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure how you feel about him, it's probably best to see him as a friend for a while. If the old feelings rekindle, then you might consider dating him again.
What concerns me is your assertion that you don't deserve how well he treats you. He clearly thinks you're worth it, so why don't you? That lack of self-esteem might be what caused the break-up in the first place. I think you should resolve your own issues (get counseling if necessary) before you try to be in a serious relationship. Otherwise you'll put him through hell for no good reason.
2006-08-23 03:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only go out with him again if you care for him as a boyfriend. Sounds sorta like you just miss the being in the relationship and ebing treated like a princess not him. You have to decide how you feel about him and then follow your heart.
2006-08-23 03:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are giving him the run-around and he doesn't think you are serious about breaking up with him. It also sounds like your unsure as well. You are leading him on and playing games with him and I don't think that is right at all either. You either know what you want or not. If you don't know what you want-it was good that you let him go b/c there was a reason of why you let him go. Stick to your guns and support your own beliefs. Don't be hesitant and go back with him if you knew by your instincts that it wasn't right...If you do know what you want...then you obviously know that he wasn't right for you and there are other fish in the sea. Good luck!
2006-08-23 03:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your third sense say? This is important because you have known him closely and known his overall behaviour.
Often it is seen that girls take those sentimental decision in spite of the fact that they know that their bf are not trustworthy. They do it because they love them..
So dont take sentimental decision try to understand how he has been throughtout your relationship and use your brain.
After all it is highly impossible to know the human mind truly. But ensure that you dont make injustice to him in case if your third sense says he is genuine...
2006-08-23 03:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-27 20:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in second chances, at least not anymore. He's the one angry with you before when you pancaked him...he might take revenge. Beware.
2006-08-23 03:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is right, babe.
and what i mean by feeling right, is not just thru your heart, but also with your mind.
at the end of the day, what really matters is if the decision you made makes you happy or not.
2006-08-26 07:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Manix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't work the first time...
2006-08-23 03:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by ANGEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you like a princess you are right you don't deserve him...
2006-08-23 03:02:42 · answer #11 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋