I know this may sound weird but that is they i feel most of the time.Ispend all my time w/helping my family out when they need it but when i need them sorry we can't help.Funny that life is crazy but a lot of us luv it then some don't.Sorry going on & on.
2006-08-23 02:56:36 · 4 answers · asked by ~One~Of~A~Kind~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because when you help someone you would think they would realise what you did for them and when you needed help, help you as well. Or atleast because they are your friends and family realise you need help and offer because they care about you. I know what you mean. It's like everything is passing you by but stops when they have a problem then just keep on going. Try talking to them about it or if you just need someone to tlak to try initiating the conversation with them instead of waiting for someone to offer you help. They are your friends and family so they should understand.
2006-08-23 03:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u're not alone, sumtimes i feel the d same too. world seems so lonely eventhough friends, relatives, family and our loves 1 is very near to us. but my advice to u is, u have to fight d feeling, the boredness, d feeling of lonely and most important is the weird feeling that when others hv difficulties we help and when we are in big prob we cant see their hand helping us. thats make u feel lonely and being dump. why not u learn how to give and take, sumtimes we cant expect that when we already helps other.. others will help us too, no!!! thats the minority, u do majority but others are minority. so plz handle with care ur own feeling. u have to take care of ur own fight for ur feeling and think positive. and do remember this is the fact of life, we are not born to be looser but to be a winner.
2006-08-23 10:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by avo82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because helping isn't full filling you it's taking care of their needs.And you must love you and take care of your needs first.People can be selfish and not really care about your needs so you have to care.That's why you fill alone in a room full of people because you need self full filling.Take time for you now.
2006-08-23 10:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by endigogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone to love you and help you. You can't keep helping other people all the time when it's not doing you any good. You need love and such, and you need to find someone you can give you that. Love and help.
2006-08-23 10:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by Kittie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋