do you think it's important to marry a guy or girl that is still virgin?
2006-08-23 02:31:07 · 24 answers · asked by kisa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Nope..
2006-08-23 02:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO...
Lady Moonlight here has sumed it up very well...
Best to get it out of the way at the average age of 16, then do all the nomal experinces of you age group...
Ie the spin the bottle, the fondle in the cinema, the makout in the car, the uni girls vs boys prank wars...
The falling in olve when music is your life still at home with folks the ...making love with one ear for the girlfriends dad walking up the drive thing.
The first festival bonk in a tent etc...
All those great experiences etc about life and would want someoen who had done that or wanted to...
Being an old virgin means you only miss out and when you do actually do it , it will be more of a chore, a duty, and you have missed out on so much of life...
Only mid teens should be virgins and before they loose it have done lots of foreplay and other stuff ie crawl, toddle, walk, run then break dance
Not all on one night...
I would want someone virgion or not to want me, to fancy and want to make out as they loved doing it but especailly with me...
Morality is about not being a bully
What matters is you bhave someone gerogeous who loves touching and kissing and pbeing playful and flirty with you and who is lots of fun to be with and you your care about and love very much...
2006-08-23 13:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's entirely up to you. It would of been wrong in the old days but its now. If you think its important than yeah just make sure if there not a virgin you know there sexual background cause you don't want any stds.
2006-08-27 07:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God, no way! First time sex is awful usually, it was for me - it was painful and awkward. I wouldn't have wanted my wedding night to be like that! I'm glad I got it out of the way so I could enjoy sex after that. It took me a good bit of practice to knwow what I enjoyed and to relax and have fun with it, and I'm glad to have got that practice done with others so when I met Mr Right I could enjoy it.
Same with my man. My ex was a virgin when we met and he really didn't have a clue what to do. I really didn't enjoy sex with him at first, it was awkward and unfulfilling. My BF now had at least had a few gf's before me and had more of clue what he was doing and what to do to make me feel good, he wasn't a shaking virgin, so we could both enjoy ourselves.
No more virgins for me!!!
2006-08-23 09:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, it shows a sense of character. It also shows maturity. But would I say that virginity is the #1 guideline for marriage? No. But I also wouldn't be with someone who didn't show control.
2006-08-23 10:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by CF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily...there are a lot of practical reasons to keep your virginity until then though (virginity = only 100% protection against unwanted pregnancy, HIV, STDs, etc).
2006-08-23 09:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by p.helen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is as important as you make it.If your future husband has slept with sum1 before,there is no way to tell.But for a woman...but that is also not foolproof.as long as you no that once married you'll remain that persons only other partner,then it shouldn't be a problem
2006-08-23 09:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Tazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really cos somebody once said to me if the first person u have sex with is the person u marry and they are not really that good ur pretty much stuck in a non sexually fulfilling realtionship arent u and how can u tell ur getting the best deal when u have nothing else to compare to.....mmm
2006-08-23 09:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-08-23 10:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Whitney P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's always nice to be "the first", but in today's world, that will seldom be the case. Any one that finds that situation needs to be sure that it is treated with respect and a whole lot of love.
2006-08-23 09:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,If she is not a virgin I will not marry her
2006-08-23 10:08:22 · answer #11 · answered by mortangle2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋