I told her that i will love and touch a girl only who i am going to marry. She told me that she is 25 which is 2 year less than me. Hence we started to share our feelings and sex also. I told most of my family matters and secrets to her. She also told me something. Now she weeped and disclosed that she hide a thing that is she is 3 year senior than me. She cried a lot. When i asked about this she told that she dont want to miss my love thats why she did like this. Still she loves me very much and she dont want to marry anyone else even i not marred her. But she wants my love and care even i married.
2006-08-23 02:27:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Age is only a number. It's the person and the personality that really matter in any relationship. Don't throw away a chance for a lifetime of love and devotion for something so trivial.
2006-08-23 02:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters Age makes no difference.. If you love her and love having sex with her what does it matter. maybe she thought you wouldn't like her if you knew she was older than you.. As for sharing your feelings and sex that was also your decision.. it wasn't all her doing? Must be something you like about this girl. As for the crying part of her. that was her way of hoping that you would forgive her for her age descrepancy.
I don't see that it should hurt your relationship if you were serious about not touching a girl unless you were going to marry her.. Not to many of you guys around with them values any more.
Is she still worth you time. is your decision. but if you really care for her this shouldn't make any difference to you.. Ask if there is anything else that she wishes to share with you that she didn't tell you .. If everything is as good as you say they were you should be able to forgive and forget it. as age has no limit.. and i am sure you haven't told her everything either.
good luck, looks like the decision to trust is up to you.
2006-08-23 02:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's not being dishonest about anything else, then yo should be fine. Why would she feel the need to lie about a 3-year difference? The older you get, the less age difference matters. Anyway, it sounds like she cares about you a lot so I wouldn't break up over it.
2006-08-23 02:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should both sit down and talk about whether there are any other "little white lies". Bring everything to the board. Once that is done, if you can forgive her and let it go, then you should stay with her and continue loving her, but don't forget to remind her that you do love her, because she will need that strength from you. It's one little lie....and it's only a year difference....there are MORE things out there that are problematic to a relationship than that. Good luck to both of you!!!
2006-08-23 02:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by alana w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a big issue for you? If so, why? Three years is not that great an age difference. I wouldn't worry about it. Just make sure she understands you will not be lied to again. It sounds as if you have a great relationship with her in all the important areas. Consider yourself lucky to have found someone who loves you as much as you obviously love her. She cares about you very much to have come clean about it before the relationship went further.
Good luck
2006-08-23 02:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by slimsmom@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number. Who cares if she's older? Big deal! This kind of thing happens all the time. Look at Cameron and Justin or Demi and Ashton. If you are mature enough for her, then I say go for it. You love eachother, right?
2006-08-23 02:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she lied one time that doesnt mean that she ll again >>> she lied coz she loves u now when u r in love with her she there s no need for laying .. i lied once at my bf ( a big one really ) but ive never done it after that >>> if u really love her and she does too forgive her BUT tell her this s ur last time if u did again i ll never forgive u ok ... That she s older than u no matter the age is not that much important ... GOOD LUCK
2006-08-23 02:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by magic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 5 years younger than I am... he knew it from the beginning... it doesn't matter to him.
It generally bothers the woman more than it does the man... jokingly, I've told people that I'm 39 since 1993.
Please understand... women like to think of themselves as always being young, because they think they're more beautiful if they stay young.
We also don't like to admit to our shoe size either... especially if it's past the size of 5.
To women, those things are important... to men, I guess it's ridiculously silly.
It's your choice... you could choose to understand her... & continue loving her.
2006-08-23 02:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH? not real sure what you mean, but if you love her why do you care if she is 1, 5 or 10 years older than you!!
it shouldnt matter dude!
2006-08-23 02:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by xsplodeit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude its 3 years its not like shes your grandmas age or something.Does it really make a difference?If you love each other be together.My husband is 12 years my senior.Age is just a number.
2006-08-23 02:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋