2006-08-23 02:02:58 · 74 answers · asked by computerjunkie621 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Since you feel this strongly, just tell her it's your way or the highway.
2006-08-30 23:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What if his dad feels the same way as you ? What do you think the brothers and the sisters think when they see him with a white girl ? The only way you can stop this is to notify an all white racist Police department from the southern States or the KKK. Unless ofcourse you're brave enough to step on his toes yourself. If it bothers you so much. You will do something. Even if it means being called a racist. Like William Pierce and Shawn Walker of The National Alliance did. But, I have a feeling you will just get used to it. It's nothing new. I've met mixed race people. They're the result of inter-racial marriages. But, I didn't notice any major badness from them. I knew a guy who was half Mexican and Irish American. He was immature and annoying because he was a teenage guy. I knew a girl who was part Black,Indian,Chinese etc. She was really mature and nice. There was a show called 21 Jump street. There was a similar situation. Except the guy was white and the girl was black. I forgot how that episode ended.
2006-08-30 21:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by sandwreckoner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually u are a racist if u talk like that. Why do u want 2 keep your daughter from dating black men? They aren't as bad as ppl think. You could try giving them a chance. Try having him over for dinner or meeting his parents or something just 2 see what he's like. If your daughter likes these types of guys, why not give her a chance? She will only do it more if u forbid her. Maybe even behind your back so be open w/her. You can't keep her from being hurt, because that's a road she has 2 travel in life. We all do.
2006-08-23 02:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by ginie_in_a_bottle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since you're not a racist, why do you want to get your daughter
out from dating black men? Anyway, here are some tips for you to try and convince your daughter not to date black men, as follows:-
1. Introduce more young friends (male) to her who are not
blacks, example: white or yellow guys;
2. Show keen interest in her liking towards male friends
who are not blacks;
3. Discuss and make logical suggestions to her that it's
best for everyone's interest (in the family) not for her to
date black guys.
I hope everything will turn out fine for you and your daughter.
Good Luck!
2006-08-31 00:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by steplow33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. I've dated black men because I was attracted to them. If they are in her social circle she may consider dating them..If you try to control her you are going to lose her respect. Why don't you see the possible good in some black men. Many have the same values as you and want the same things as you do. Look at Barak Obama. I would vote for him for president in a New York minute. I think it would benefit our country to have politicians that were of a mixture of black and white. They would clearly be able to see the good and bad in both cultures.
2006-08-28 12:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can stop her dating black men but if youre not racist then why would u want her to not date black men
2006-08-23 02:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Itz so Obvious ur a racist if Not y would u wanna Get ur Daughter FROM dating Black men... RACISt
2006-08-27 20:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should you care it's your daughter's life and BTW she gonna do what she wants to do so you might as well start dealing with it. I think you should only get involved if the guy is a loser, user or abuser. If it's a fad she'll start dating her race again. She may just be curious or she may really like the guy either way if you love your daughter let it be her choice.
2006-08-23 02:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by PYT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. You ARE racist.
2. A person cannot be judged by the color of his skin.
3. The more you forbid her, the worst it will be. Do you want her to hate you? Let her live, and you, get a life!
2006-08-29 11:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Jeani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything about it. If you try to discourage her you're going to create a brick wall between the two of you. She's testing the waters. Leave her alone. Welcome all her friends to your home and encourage her even more when she's dating someone of your own race. But remember, the color of the skin doesn't make someone a good or bad person. There's also white trash stuff out there.'
2006-08-23 02:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, general rule is that you can't help who you are attracted to. And assuming that your daughter is either in her teens or twenties, the more you stop her the more she'd do what she wants.
But if she is happy, let it be. If she were dating abusive guys that's a whole different story. Also, a word of warning, and don't take this the wrong way. Whoever comes between people in love usually loses that person. You may lose your daugther's respect.
2006-08-23 02:06:27 · answer #11 · answered by Centered 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋