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I mean how does a honor student in high school who loves school just start partying to the point that she gets kicked out of school, and no to talk about how she is only oing to this school because the girl she loves said she wouldntwait for her to get back?... why do people change for people?

2006-08-23 01:33:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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I guess it is because none of us is fully happy with what we are. We see some thing in the others that fascinates us, and we try to copy that. Mebbe!

Another thing, if you live with somebody for quite a while, your behaviour and habits become the same. Now there could be love, or not.

2006-08-23 01:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by kinsy 2 · 0 0

Teenagers sometimes have identities that are in flux, they're all over the place because they haven't finished growing up yet. Studies have shown now that the teenage brain doesn't really reach full maturation until the person is about 25 and for some it is even later.

She's experiementing with who she thinks she is . She's unhappy with herself , so she's going to try to go in the total opposite direction to what she thinks was a dumb identity to have.

Older people do it too and most of the time it mainly has to do with not liking themselves much and having a very low sense of self esteem. It's often been said that you can't love someone else until you truly love yourself but most people don't. They think they must have a partner to complete their lives, then they'll become whole. Hollywood and love songs have contributed to that unhealthy delusion.

2006-08-23 08:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzy-tish 6 · 0 0

The Buddhist perspective on karma isn't very different than that of Hindus. Every action you take will have a repercussion in the future, and you have to live with the consequences of your actions. Most Buddhists believe in reincarnation, and their goal is to transcend constant birth and rebirth to achieve nirvana, similar to the Hindu moksha.

Buddhism also places importance on the intent of one's actions. For example, if you accidentally step on a bug and kill it, you won't create bad karma. But if you purposefully kill it, you create bad karma. Likewise, if your actions unintentionally benefit others, you do not create good karma. Only when you mindfully do good, do you create good karma.


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2006-08-23 08:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 7 · 0 0

I guess the basic instinct of man is to love and be loved by others. In this process, most of people tend to change involuntarily, either to impress or to find themselves one with the other person whom they love.

2006-08-23 08:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by haritha 1 · 0 0

We grow in the image of those we love.

2006-08-23 08:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0 0

Who even cares about lesbian love affairs... quit wasting my time!

2006-08-23 08:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by MadMaxx 5 · 0 0

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