2006-08-23 01:31:07 · 12 answers · asked by chirokuro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I see your posts...alot of them....it seems like he is not ready to be with you seriously yet.....your relationship is immature and you are being naive to think that this man will truly marry you...or is he a boy.....give yourself time to grow up....a man can't marry a woman or even think about it without introducing her to his mother.
2006-08-23 01:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Honey Dip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mother may have issues that he is not ready to share with you yet, like maybe she doesn't keep house well or she has an obvious disability, maybe she is in a wheelchair something like this could be the reason.
He may also just want to be sure you are the right one for him first before he goes introducing you to his family.
It also could be that his parents have told him "I don't want to meet them unless you're marrieing them" I've heard this from my partents and my husband and I tell our children this...
He may also just be waiting for the right moment.
Some mothers are very funny about the women their son's date, some can be down right mean and very protective, a lot of mothers don't like their son's girlfriends and /or wives that is just in most or some of their natures. Some can be very critical to their faces he could be saving you some heart aches if this is how she is and maybe he might not feel you are ready for all that yet it can put a lot of strain on a relationship.
Give him some time if it's ment to be then it will be...
2006-08-23 08:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you know your bf ?
there are many reasons why he had not introduce her to you ..
1) He is not serious about the relationship
2) He is not ready to take you as his steady
3) He may have a family reason not to bring you home to meet his mum.
2006-08-23 08:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont push him or hint him to do that. the more a person pushes for somebody else to do something the more they withdraw. just act normal.dont hint at all.why dont u take a clue and introduce him to your family.he will take the hint and do the same.
2006-08-23 08:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There have been times I've been reluctant to introduce gf's to mom. not because of the girl, but because I can't always trust mom not to embarrass me or her . What's you hurry anyway?
2006-08-23 10:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he will in time. How long have you been dating? Maybe he has another girlfriend or a wife and you are something on the side.
2006-08-23 08:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend as u think is using you . for what he wants and does not want to let his mom know about u . and he does not want you as a future girlfriend or wife . as long as you put out he will use u .
2006-08-23 08:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he not ready or he will take you when the time is right there could be 100 reasons how long have you've been dating?
2006-08-23 08:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take it personal cuz sometimes our mothers maybe hard to understand us so dont worry about this issue it will be done soon :)
2006-08-23 09:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not ready ... because that means 100% commitment.
2006-08-23 08:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋