Have u ever tried to help a friend but got ur own fingers burnt in the process ? How does that make u feel?
I once tried to defend a friend in college but she backed off and left me to fight for her !! I felt stupid !
2006-08-23 00:30:44 · 17 answers · asked by Nisha 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes. This has happened to me before. I look at it this way; at least you find out who your real friends are. A real friend wouldn't do that to you. I wouldn't allow this person to get close to me again. We may be friendly, but never friend again.
2006-08-23 00:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone should & must help not only friend but each one, when ever required, without any expectations. If U experienced something wrong about someone doesn't mean all R same. May B that person had some sort of own problem which could not be declared, who knows. U must think of many different possibilities B4 doubting or blaming I guess. At the most U should've left the fight 4 them when they backed off, or thought wether they were right & if yes continued the fight 4 a right cause.
2006-08-23 11:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Nisha
After reading your question I have realise that u r a good friend and a helping nature girl.
Dear first of all I wanted to say to u that when your friend fight and u defend. Dear you show and prove it that u r a good friend but on the other side your friend backed off and You are alone that mean that for whom you come between the fight . She is not your good friend.
Dost I feel that You must leave that friend and I feel that what happend to u is very bad but You r a good friend , It is prove.
Dot U Know that If today a friend need our help , it may be tomorrow that we need help of our friend.
Dear choose a good friend and don't nervous yaar "Hum Bhi Hai Aapki raho Me " .
Bye Nisha and Take Care
Because u find a new good friend that's me.
2006-08-23 08:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when that happens! People just try to put it off on someone else to get rid of there own problem.
2006-08-23 08:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Got_a_question? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that has never happend to me . u must have had a bad time.but i am proud of ur helping nature. HATS OFF TO U NISHA!!
2006-08-23 08:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight for the one who stays with u till end u will never burn ur hands
2006-08-23 07:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thumbs up for you for helping a friend!
she could have backed off due to fear or stress. have a good talk with her. then decide whether to forgive her or let it go.
in years to come, when you look back, i am sure you would not regret your decision to have helped her then. trust me â¥
2006-08-23 07:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by ash 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have helped my friends a lot and lost a friend in that process........
2006-08-23 08:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by doable_rods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today's update :- A friend in deed is a friend in need.
2006-08-23 08:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by No Saint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend in need is a friend indeed.
do talk with your so called friend and remove any obstacles between you. she will be under your debt forever.
2006-08-23 08:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by vaibhav mishra sscet,bhilai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋