i have changed a lot for my wife and she loves me a lot.But,she has not changed for my likings and so,i feel i am lost.................
2006-08-23 00:08:04 · 3 answers · asked by sri_1972m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have openly communicated with her,but in vain.
I love her tooo
2006-08-23 00:13:04 · update #1
ours is a arrangeg marriage and married for 8 years
2006-08-23 00:14:37 · update #2
have an open communication with your wife...
communication is always what is needed in any relationships...
2006-08-23 00:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already mentioned that she loves you. Why do you want her to change? Do you really love her? Since it an arranged marriage, and you have agreed, then make a success of your marriage.
You have to learn to adapt to each others' ways and behaviour. No two persons can be the same in all ways. Love means to accept the other's "weaknesses" as you see it. You may not like it, but can you live with it?
2006-08-23 07:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think the world is full of fools.
You and your wife got together and fell in love. Now you want to change her and you changed for her.
You might think you changed but you didn't. We can not change who or what we are. We can change habits but not who we are.
Didn't you love her for what she was when you asked her to marry you.
2006-08-23 07:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋