My husband always said my family is not fair to him, he look like want to hurt me more with his words. I do want him to break up, but he dont want to let go of me. Why he dont want to break up, i still dont have the answer.
2006-08-23 00:04:52 · 10 answers · asked by ann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband is very petty and aggressive. Is good that you leave him and start a new fresh life. I think he don't want to let you go, maybe he cannot find a better woman than you, so no choice hang around with you first. Better for you to make the first move of breaking up. Bye! and take care.
2006-08-23 03:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
It's simply because he loves you. He tells you things to hurt you so as to make you understand the fact that your family has hurt him. He only wants to make you feel what he has undergo. Have a conversation with him and tell him to forget all the things that your family told him. Show him how much you care for him and love him. Think well before taking any decision. No doubt your husband loves you a lot that's why he doesn't want to break up. Tell him that whatever your family say doesn't matter as you love him. Hope things work out well for you. Wish you all the best.
2006-08-23 00:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by mehnaazishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello honey, please dont be offended by my comments; as you've have only provided little info in this dialogue hence i can only base on my imagination; nevertheless it is still require for you to understand the situation psychologically..
Firstly, i have a few question:
1. how come your family had to be involve in your relationship?
2. What brought him there to your family, that resulted him giving such a comments. If family (parents) gathering is good, then you can jion them every week end.
But if family gathering is not good, it would be advisable to join them on a yearly basis.
Try to avoid bringing parent's issue into your own family. it make thing worse, or creating problems unnecessarily..
Here is my comments..
with a marriage of 6 yrs, no body wants to break up, and if you're thinking for the good of him. I'm suggesting that you try to avoid bringing your parents into your own family... knowing that you need to respect your parents, but it is still your own family comes first..
Unless you are one sided person; meaning if your thinking is your parents come first, then your husband. I would again suggest that you should marry to your parents, instead of him..
please try to see things and situation in a more rational way, and be more open minded..
2006-08-25 17:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idon't know what happened innyour relationship but I believe he is not willing to accept the fact that he have to divorced with you. At this moment I don't whether both of you are still staying together or not but you have to tell him to face the reality and not avoiding so that both of you can still carry on with your own life. It will be a painful decision to made but if things cannot move on there is no point forcing each other to stay together and prolong your agony. be brave and carry on with your life
2006-08-23 04:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time some people only use their mouth to talk but in their heart is diffrent.So what 4 u break up.Just don't bother about him when say like that to u.
2006-08-23 10:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant stay if the relationship isnt making either one of you happy. Someone has to be responsible and end it before it gets ugly and then someone REALLY gets hurt.
Blessed Be~
2006-08-23 01:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Cheppyyyyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y must ur family come into the picture..its abt wats the feelin btw the 2 of u tat matters..
2006-08-23 05:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tihnk you are crazy!!!!!!!!!
Why must your family come into the picture..??????
this resulted that he is thinking otherwise now. and if you're trying to be a parent's smarty girl... you're too much then.
I agree with Love69 comments, try to see thing rationally... dont just think for yourself, you're just too selfish...
2006-08-25 17:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up and act like a man!
2006-08-23 00:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good, you dont want him to go and he dont you to go. thats great and any problems?
nothing and no marriage is perfect and a bed of roses...there're problems and thorns to prick and keep us awake less we take it for granted.
work on it...you doing fine.
2006-08-23 17:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋